Prayer Request for Holly's Son Adam
Adam was a passenger in a serious motorcycle accident on the late night of 8-19-2015. He has a traumatic brain injury. This is the place for updates.
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And he spake a parable unto them to this end, that men ought always to pray, and not to faint; saying, There was in a city a judge, which feared not God, neither regarded man: and there was a widow in that city; and she came unto him, saying, Avenge me of mine adversary. And he would not for a while: but afterward he said within himself, Though I fear not God, nor regard man; yet because this widow troubleth me, I will avenge her, lest by her continual coming she weary me. Luke 18:1-5
God is a righteous judge, and so let’s continue to go to Him for everything.
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Update 4-20-2016
But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, That the excellency of the power may be of God, and not of us. 2 Corinthians 4:6
I am but a cracked vessel. I am reminded of a story I heard years ago which will be shared here about as well as I can recall. There was this poor woman who walked to get water by carrying the earthen vessels on a stick across her back. One was cracked and didn’t seem to make it worthwhile. But as she made this long trek each day, she began to see little flowers sprouting up alongside the way. They had been (and were continuing to be) nourished by the water coming from the cracked vessel. I pray somehow that will be something I can do through Christ. That you too might find strength and peace in Christ.
I wake up some days feeling more tired than when I went to sleep. Physically, mentally, spiritually, emotionally… these are all my weak areas, and I am weak. I am reminded though of the treasure that is within us, Jesus Christ, who is our strength. His strength made perfect in our weakness.
I have no strength of my own, anything I have is because of the Lord Jesus Christ (that is, anything good), the rest is me.
I have more news today from one of Adam’s prior roommates. He went to be with the Lord a couple weeks ago, he was a sweet, caring man. Another friend I made at the other subacute facility also lost her husband, and one of the young nurses there too. I am in touch with all three, I won’t name them but ask that you say a prayer for them, for their comfort and healing in their sorrow. Please continue to pray for Chris and Cristina as they walk through this journey that they might also be strengthened, encouraged and renewed in this time.
Two nights ago, I decided to work with Adam on spelling as we waited for dinner. I looked around the room for words, and asked him to spell them. The words he spelled successfully were discharge, elephant, complex, beautiful, subacute, dinner, before, between, breakfast, wheelchair & mystery, there were more I could not remember. At dinner we spelled some more things and got to his dessert, which he really loved (kept grabbing for it). He had stopped showing interest in spelling, so seeing the motivation for his butterscotch squares, I asked him to spell butterscotch before the next bite. Lickety split the letters B-U-T-T-E-R-S-C-O-T-C-H flowed rapidly out of his mouth which was instantly opened for anticipation of his next bite, (simultaneously accompanied by a finger poke at the dessert followed by pointing to his already opened mouth). Usually I respond to hand prompts by telling him I don’t understand sign language and I make him speak out loud. But I had to laugh and capitulate, he deserved it.
After dinner, we went outside, and I looked around for some words to spell. I opened my lap top and went to look for the Readers Digest word vocabulary online. They had a link with words with multiple choice answers. Most he answered out loud with the correct definition, a few he picked the corresponding letter. These are the words he rightly defined.
- Graphic
- Canon
- Symmetry
- Panoramic
- Opaque
- Juxtapose
- Kinetic
- Avant-garde
- Aesthetics
- Anthropomorphic
We also try to read the Word with Adam every day. The speech therapist brought up a good idea regarding Proverbs and abstract thinking, so we went to Proverbs 18 and 19. In chapter 19 we discussed definition and spelling of integrity. Adam spelled it then on his own, he defined it to mean honesty and goodness. He correctly spelled more words from Pr. 19 — among them, abandon, nobility, favor, understanding, unpunished, witness, wisdom and luxury. I asked him to spell princes which I believe he heard as princess (which he spelled). Wonderful night, help me to be grateful for each day we have. We are attempting new things and working on thinking outside the box too. Amber started with things like drawing and painting which was not previously a like of his. These are things that build new neural pathways — Oh, I asked him what that was — and he thought for awhile and answered things we cannot see and cannot hear. I told him that was true, and explained how being in new situations and learning new things helped build new neural pathways. I explained a little about how the brain works to build new pathways when exposed to new things, so tomorrow I’ll teach him Japanese 🙂
I appreciate your prayers for all my family, that I keep balance with my loved ones, and keep all my priorities as straight as possible. Much love in Christ to you all.
For this cause I bow my knees unto the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, of whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named, that he would grant you, according to the riches of his glory, to be strengthened with might by his Spirit in the inner man; that Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith; that ye, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all saints what is the breadth, and length, and depth, and height; and to know the love of Christ, which passeth knowledge, that ye might be filled with all the fulness of God. Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us, unto him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus throughout all ages, world without end. Amen. Eph 3:14-21
If you do not know the Lord Jesus Christ, this is not about religion but about truth and is a matter of life and death. I would not be a friend if I did not tell you.
Update 4-18-2016
Many things have transpired since we have moved. We are settling in. With the Lord’s help I kind of decided I was going to do more moving and inspire him to do more moving and exercising along with helping him to stand. We’ve accomplished all those things, and he is working hard with me. He may do some crunches and then I ask if he wants to beat his record, he can do X amount. He does the X amount and a few more 🙂 He is talking more frequently and is going into his own world less. I work with him on pushing to stand up. He is trying so hard.
He continues to amaze me. Progress is both slow and rewarding. Yet we miss the big picture at times as we’re there daily and others who come less frequently see it differently.
Adam teased with me the other day, I have always joked with him about calling me mom in public. “Call me Holly not mom!” He’d tease back with “O.K. MOTHER”. I never cared, it was just a longstanding joke between us. One that I had repeated to him the night before when Amber and I were outside with him.
My friend was with him the next morning and she saw me pass by in the parking lot in the afternoon. She told him “your mom is here”, and then asked him if he knew my name. He told her Holly. And when I came into his room he said, “Hey Holly, how’s your day been going?” and grinned as if he had told the funniest joke.
Thank you all for your prayers. We are waiting on a referral to his physical therapist (amazing how insurance works). and also for an eye appointment. Adam has stopped tracking with his eyes, so please pray for that. On the up note, the place is older, seems a little understaffed, but the majority of the staff seem friendly enough. We continue to try to keep our eyes fixed upon Jesus. Looking for that perfect peace as we keep our mind stayed on Him because we trust in Him (Is 26:3).
Update 4-7-2016
I am sorry I have not updated yet. As usual, we are pretty tired in many ways, but thankful for His help. I thank you all also for your prayers. Adam is moved to a skilled nursing facility. I had chosen one near me, but they didn’t feel they could safely take care of him (two others turned him down also for that reason). He fell out of bed twice in the first three days. Thank the Lord he was not hurt, but evidently they too were not quite correctly informed about his needs either. The second time he made it across the safety mattress (on the floor) and was partway leaning on the wall giving them all thumbs up when they ran into his room.
He had a doctor’s long standing doctor’s appointment with Dr. Kwasnica. He was transported there, but we were told it had been canceled due to not having a ‘primary physician’ referral. So, Adam had an outing at any rate.
Adam was assessed at his current facility regarding some of the safety issues, falls and his dental and eyesight needs. Please keep praying for things to continue to move forward and for us all to be strengthened in all our ways.
Update 3-30-2016
Please pray about the forced move today. They (Barrows) were unreal in their responses, they can and will force the move. The case manager tried to say I turned down the two places; the place by me (I did not, I informed her that they turned him down due to safety issues and the fact that he was still needing ‘acute rehab’.) I told her that I had that in writing from them.
I referred to another SNF being upset at not being correctly informed as to his situation (they turned him down, and let one of our friends/caregivers know of their unhappiness regarding the misinformation) . When I brought up the last facility being wrongly informed about seat belt restraints (he fell out of the wheelchair there with someone in the room) and the bed against the wall, (with railings up), Tammy, the case manager for Barrows said it was a ‘moot point’, she didn’t even attempt to deny it or explain it.
Update 3-29-2016
Just going to briefly share, Adam drew this picture over the weekend with Amber. Picking every color and just relaxing as he drew, both said and wrote, “That’s Beautiful”. I think so too. The other writing was done by Adam in Speech Therapy.
Update 3-28-2016
Amber found a facility, and it seemed hopeful. There were some issues that maybe if we can get those adjusted in the future, this could be a place we might be able to consider. Currently, it just is not the place for him at the level of care he needs. We found that they had been misinformed on his needed level of care. So were two other facilities, but they had assessed him in person and knew he was not ready to leave.
Pray for this not to become unpleasant with them, we are not trying to do anything that is improper, we want him to move forward though and it will require supervision and some safety measures that this facility cannot provide. Pray for his continued improvement and our patience in this whole matter. Pray also that Barrows will be understanding in this. In His love…
Update 3-24-2016
Barrows is still saying Adam is ready for discharge, papers ready. They are now saying that he is suddenly not progressing although we have notated every day a majority of the therapists saying that he was improving, progressing and even ‘surprising them’. That also includes nurses and nurse’s assistants, who have seen him speak more, sing (shocked two) and other new things.
On the 14th, they gave him a laxative, it was supposed to be a one time help, and unfortunately somehow was overlooked and over the week plus that followed he got little sleep day or night. We figured out the problem and insisted they called the doctor to discontinue it, because it was repeated one more time after we discovered it. Other than that, he has been doing well and slowly getting stronger. Insurance however is a different story. Evidently there is some invisible line (that they are all aware of) that once you pass, it is time for you to leave. Problem seems to be, that everyone they want to send him to says he still needs to be here.
The Skilled Nursing Facility that Barrows suggested and I was basically settled on (near our house) today told us they could not take him, because he still needed ‘ACUTE REHAB’ and that they could not meet his needs safely. They have suggested this is a Mercy Care/Altcs possible denial of payment issue.
I have contacted my Representative David Schweikert, and every skilled nursing near me, right now we are again not knowing what to do, in a state of flux, we so appreciate the prayer for us all. Love, Holly and Adam
Update 3-22-2016
Once again I was offered ‘help’, just not the kind of help I was looking for.
Options are not great for the next step but we trust God is directing our steps (Prov 3:5-6).
We have looked at several facilities, some absolutely dismal.
First we picked one that we were told was covered through Adam’s insurance. It was the best and the closest to home. Then the Social worker at Barrows told us they did not take his insurance along with another in Paradise Valley (turned out not to be correct in PV, they just didn’t have a bed available. An email to his insurance company and I found out the information I was given was incorrect).
We tried again, and got another possibility and are awaiting the answers there. In the meantime, we were looking at a couple more facilities that now Barrow’s social services department says they ‘have no beds’ in their time frame (no answers from them as to when these places have beds, but not when they want us out — tomorrow).
I received a call from the neuropsych yesterday. She asked me how I was doing considering ‘all I had been through’ (and they said she didn’t need to know). I told her I was doing fine in the circumstances, and making some slow progress on finding him a place, but was hopeful. In light of my response, I was mildly amused when once again she offered me the possibility of ’emotional support’. (As some of you remember, she told a friend who is a volunteer caregiver, that she felt I needed emotional help which she could help provide – not as professional as I would have expected from them). I did not get upset with her, I just shared with her that I did have a great emotional support system in the Lord, and my wonderful family and friends. I explained that my emotions had to do with wanting the best for my loved one, as is only natural and normal (unless you are hard-hearted). I told her my frustration was with the lack of information, available options for his future, and communication regarding those options (I filled her in with some general issues). Basically when I was done going over those things that I felt they could do better for the next person, she nicely asked me if I would consider counseling. I just shook my head and laughed quietly at the irony. (Counseling from them — for my frustration that stems from them (the lack of information, options and guidance on where to go next, and some mistakes I won’t share here). The sheer time consumption that has been caused by the lack of help in this one department. I’d like to know when she’d like me to pencil in that counseling appointment had I been willing to take her up on it 🙂
I did not get angry or even feel angry. I wouldn’t have wasted more of our valuable time if I didn’t have hope that it might help the person behind me not get the same treatment. I told her Barrows is excellent in so many departments, but for families who aren’t familiar with the maze of paperwork, or navigating that maze (how to find a facility, what type of facility to look for, as well as what kind of questions to ask, etc.) they feel as if they are the blind groping in the dark. I suggested that they needed a little more strength in that department so that people wouldn’t be so stressed in being pushed to get out, yet not have an acceptable place to go. After all that, her next suggestion was that I join a support group for caregivers there at Barrows. (Wow, this could have been a good skit if it was not real life). I let her know that from the beginning, I was in several TBI support groups online, but once again shook my head at the comedy of everything I said just either ignored, deflected or distracted with useless offers of unneeded help, while our real needs were not addressed.
I told her the concerns of other patients I had spoken to regarding the same problem and my own concern of the one who is unequipped who will deal with this. She again seemed unaffected by the information. So I finally told her I needed to go to attend to Adam (and I did), and hung up the phone still shaking my head. I know the information is out there somewhere, it is hard to find the time when you have so many other obligations and not enough time in the day. Time is the commodity being wasted here in a lot of these places. Re-organization of their information, their medical record’s department, (they wouldn’t release to Social Security and never told me — I didn’t know for five or so weeks). A FAQ readily available to help families know what they may need to ask. More available options in their social services department in helping to facilitate a smoother discharge (i.e., a list of ALL the facilities that took his insurance, not just the ones that had immediate beds), all these and more could go a long way in this otherwise fine facility.
Please continue to pray we make the right decisions for the best in Adam’s care. We sure appreciate you all. Love in Him, Holly and Adam
Update 3-15-2016
Today it seems the physician assistant came in and decided to remove Adam’s safety net from his wheel chair. Yesterday the nurse moved his room around because he’s a fall risk and she only wanted one side for him to worry about for him to fall out of. He just fell out of his chair a few weeks back when one turned their back on him for a few seconds. So we can’t understand why they would take this risk. When asked, the nurse said I had been told (untrue, I wasn’t there today).
When I asked the person to relay to the nurse my concern, the nurse said she couldn’t put them back on for safety without the doctor’s orders. The same nurse that moved the room because she was afraid for Adam to fall. The same one present when he was almost dropped. The same one seeing him instantly lean forward on the wheel chair, so the safety net (which I had just washed) stopped him while we were talking.
So please pray for Adam’s safety while we are not there. Mostly we are with him, but what about the times we are not? Please also pray for the things that they say without thought in front of Him. Pray for his mind to be guarded. The day before the nursing assistant almost dropped him a couple of times and hit him on his head turning him on the bed to dress him. He was just too small to do these things by himself and Adam is not strong enough yet to help someone as slight as this young man was.
I know insurance presses to not pay, (although Mercy Care says they are not) and he is improving, but maybe not fast enough for how much time they want to spend. The meeting we had with the Case Manager of Barrows and the Case Manager of Mercy Care, well, let’s just say although they met first in her office, not one of us (there were six caregivers present) got the same story from them, completely conflicting and we called them on it, and still have not had a satisfactory answer, or really any answer more than ‘here is the map to the medical records dept’.
We need a more long term facility, but not knowing where to go. The Mercy Care case manager gave us a list, so far two of them, they do not take their insurance. I suspect it is the same with the other ones but will wait to hear instead of doing any more research. How is it they don’t know their own providers?
We were given a set of places by Barrows Case Manager (only two) that are about 10 miles away from my house (a conflicting set to what Mercy Care gave us entirely) so we’re pretty confused about our options.
We’re in a state of flux, tired, and worn, yet not without hope. We continue to see change, we just don’t know how to continue to get help as they seem done. This situation is strange, to see them unwilling to continue, I guess I just don’t understand how the system works. The Lord knows.
The neuropsych there suggested to one of my friends who was in the room with Adam, that I might need ’emotional help’ and she could probably help me there 🙂 There is no doubt, I am emotional, this is my son. But I believe I will be found to be stable 🙂 There’s more, but I’ll just save it for now, because I truly have no desire to hurt her or anyone, just shaking my head at these things. (If it wasn’t so unreal that a ‘professional’ would say something like that, it would almost be funny).
But, really, I do know that my help comes from the Lord, so I wish they would focus their attention on the one they currently have admitted, that is Adam of course.
Lord help our situation here with insurance and other things that You know of that we don’t seem to have much control over.
I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills,
from whence cometh my help.
My help cometh from the Lord,
which made heaven and earth.
He will not suffer thy foot to be moved:
he that keepeth thee will not slumber.
Update 3-9-2016
This is not as good of an update as I would wish. I can basically share this last week has not been very good. Physically, Adam is weaker and not as responsive. We are having difficulty getting the staff to hear, and even getting them to chart changes although we have asked. I talked to a Dr. Merkel today in tears, she said she would share my concerns with the staff tomorrow. But the other doctor left a message saying Adam is the best she has seen him since he’s been in. I don’t know what she is seeing, but it’s not what we are all seeing at all. We are very concerned at the changes, and can’t quite get staff to ‘hear’ and do anything, so we appreciate all your prayers. We are tired and discouraged, but we take it to the Lord in prayer. As the old hymn reminds us:
What a friend we have in Jesus,
All our sins and griefs to bear!
What a privilege to carry
Everything to God in prayer!
Oh, what peace we often forfeit,
Oh, what needless pain we bear,
All because we do not carry
Everything to God in prayer
Have we trials and temptations?
Is there trouble anywhere?
We should never be discouraged—
Take it to the Lord in prayer.
Can we find a friend so faithful,
Who will all our sorrows share?
Jesus knows our every weakness;
Take it to the Lord in prayer.
Are we weak and heavy-laden,
Cumbered with a load of care?
Precious Savior, still our refuge—
Take it to the Lord in prayer.
Do thy friends despise, forsake thee?
Take it to the Lord in prayer!
In His arms He’ll take and shield thee,
Thou wilt find a solace there.
Update 3-6-2016
They switched Adam’s room two days ago. He is no longer directly across the nurse’s station in a small unit, but in a large hall. He cannot call for himself yet, pray, we are not getting near the help for any stands/transfers etc. Now three people, two nurses and a male nurse’s assistant together said they could not get Adam to stand for a transfer. In the other room, all were capable of doing it, except this same nurse’s assistant who is a very small man, probably only weighing about 120 lbs. So this is discouraging, and so please pray with us about this. Also about the change in medication, the side effects seem to be diminishing, but we are also not sure if the benefits of it are also lessening. Pray for wisdom there. We know the Lord will continue to direct our steps, pray that these obstacles do not encourage us, but that we will pray without ceasing.
(I always told Adam since he was a child not to write on himself.) I had prayed one night about a lot of the things I need to do, were upcoming to do, things I were forgetting that I so desperately needed to remember. One was praying for more things vs. worrying. The verse instantly came to mind. Pray without ceasing. I teased with the Lord, “I’ll probably forget that too”. I thought to myself, “write it on your arm, you won’t forget” (I was recalling the Lord’s Words to the Israelites when He told them not to forget His commandments).
So kind of in jest, yet in a genuine desire to remember something this important, I wrote it on my forearm. When I got to the hospital, and read it to Adam, he pointed to his wrist. I told him, “remember I told you never to write on yourself when you were a kid”? He nodded and pointed to his wrist again, so I asked, “do you just want ‘pray’ or ‘pray without ceasing’?
“Pray without ceasing”. So I wrote it on his wrist and he pointed upwards. I asked what it was he wanted, and he pointed to his wrist. I asked if he wanted an arrow on his wrist, he said he did. I asked him to point to which side, so with his seized up left arm, he pointed to the right side of the writing on his right wrist.
Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God is one Lord: and thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might. And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: and thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up. And thou shalt bind them for a sign upon thine hand, and they shall be as frontlets between thine eyes. And thou shalt write them upon the posts of thy house, and on thy gates. Deut 6:4-9
Three people, two nurses and one nursing assistant were unable to transfer him today. They said he was drawing up his legs and not helping to stand. That he wasn’t strong enough and physical therapy needed to get him stronger for safe transfers. I agree, but will the doctor or the physical therapy team. Please pray that they will be able to get him strengthened enough to do what he needs to do to get home when the Lord is willing.
Update 3-3-2016
God is good to me, some of my first set of biopsies have come back negative. I guess I didn’t give much thought there, but I am thankful for His goodness to me. I am not really concerned with the second.
My daughter Greer is visiting from Durango, Co, and with her, my granddaughter Remi. It’s so nice to have a sweet smelling, determined, two and a half month old dictator that has the whole house running and dancing the jig to keep her happy. And we’re all happy as can be on our marionette strings! She came with us to go see Adam today, it was a nice visit as Adam tried to play with her, tickle her feet on his bead, she laughed a little. She was tired and fussy so playtime didn’t last long. But Adam was enamored, he smiled and said, “She’s terrible” and I laughed and said, “a regular little tyrant” 🙂 We had eaten and he began to stroke and rub my whole arm, it was very sweet. His sister went and got two shakes, a chocolate and an oreo, he opted for the oreo and some bites of the Jack in the Box famous taco 🙂 He seemed pretty darn happy afterwards. So were we. My two girls go back home tomorrow 🙁 and Adam and all of us get back to business of getting Adam stronger. Love in Christ to you all <3
Update 3-1-2016
Dork…
That was the response that came from Adam’s mouth Sunday evening after dinner. Jason called, and since Adam was talkative, I thought to put him on speaker phone. There was a little confusion as to whether he was on speaker phone, then he asked Adam, “So howya doing Adam?” Dork was the response,but said with a grin on Adam’s face. It was not at all what I had expected. I had several rough days, both emotionally and with some medical things of my own. I got to giggling instantly and that elicited an animated “What??? What did I do Adam? I just ask you how you are doing and I’m a Dork???”
That made me laugh even harder and Adam’s grin widened, as he dug in a little deeper, (while Jason was still talking), “PLEASE (appropriate dramatic pause here), please, work harder at not being such a dork!”
So by then I’m in stitches, belly laughing, tears streaming down my face, fallen on the foot of his bead. And Adam is pretty pleased with himself still grinning and chuckling. Jason hasn’t really heard all the exchange but I fill him in, and Adam and I laugh some more at Jason’s expense…
I got home and wrote a long letter to Dr. Kwasnica pleading for more time at Barrows for Adam. I faxed it over on Sunday, and talked to her Monday at great length regarding some of his gains and some of his medical issues, possible interactions of Scripts, and obviously some things hadn’t been charted that she wasn’t aware of. She agreed once she heard more on how we feel he is just not ready to go without them yet. For now she is going to do a week more to first adjust his meds, and possibly look at a cast for the other foot. We talked also about the foot splints and the misfitting on the arm splint.
We ask you all to please continue in prayer for the right timing. Love in Christ.
Update 2-28-2016
We are praying that the doctor will see it beneficial for Adam to stay for more time. We had a meeting with the case manager, and the nurse case manager with Mercy Care. Please pray with us that (Lord willing) Adam will be granted more time. Enough time to be able to stand flat-footed, to transfer safely, to get a certain issue straightened out, (whether physical or prescription related), for him to be able to do more things for daily care for himself. The Lord knows what he needs, pray for that. Thank you all for standing with us in prayer, as we are tired, weary, sad, joyful, discouraged, encouraged, happy, angry, fearful but at peace at the same time because of the Lord and our trust in Him. He has never failed us yet. Pray for all those who tangibly support us with their help in his care. Pray for his caregivers. Again, we love you all.
Update 2-19-2016
It looks like they may be cutting Adam loose from Barrows shortly, which is hugely disappointing. All I can ask for is prayer for wisdom on decisions for all concerned. This is a very difficult road, one that is hard to stay on top of things and be sure that we understand all the nuances of what is available to us. The Lord always provides, and always helps.
For immediate needs, please pray that we might get the help we need, and Adam especially is able to stand on his feet flat for transfers. That the right decisions get made for the medicines he is on, and that he will continue moving forward with the Lord’s help in all things. Seems like a struggle in a dark, foggy valley where we can’t see very far ahead to keep from stumbling. We trust in the Lord, and yet we are more than human in our fears and our weaknesses. He tells us not to worry about tomorrow, and that sufficient for today is the trouble therein (boy is that ever true). We want to keep our eyes on Him and not look down at the stormy waters that threaten to drown us. For me as his mom, I cry inside for his pain, his sorrow and his own fears. I want to save him from those fears and hurts, and worry for the rest of my children. We walk by faith and not by sight, that is a truth I try to remind myself of. Please pray also for my mom’s strength as she has had to bear the burden of my dad with very little help from me at this time. Pray for her peace and comfort too as she has so much to deal with. His grace is more than sufficient…
We love and appreciate you all. In Christ, Holly
Update 2-15-2016
I drove down the road today, and like yesterday (and others), I reflected the loss of a part of my son. I don’t want to do that, but it seems inevitable that on the trip over, my mind will start to wander. I don’t know who exactly Adam is yet, or is becoming — as I’m discovering his highs and lows, new likes and dislikes. He’s a new Adam in so many ways, a new stage in his life. Like a 9th child for me. It is similar to when the kids were newborns and became an infant, then a toddler. You were joyous with the changes, but had a deep sense of strange loss too for your newborn you wouldn’t see again except in pictures. Tears flow sometimes when I drive as my sorrow and grief overwhelms me at times I can least expect. Sometimes I have to pray to keep clear vision so that I might pay attention to my driving. Sometimes, I feel in despair, like a walking robot repeating the day over and over. Other times I feel like I can’t stand to drive the trip one more time without screaming (today and yesterday). I almost don’t want to share this, but on the other hand, I want to be genuine too about our struggles. I can’t even imagine the feelings and emotions running through Adam’s head.
Adam has had some hard days in the last four or five days, we’re not exactly sure why. He has been stressed and possibly had some medication reactions, mixed with fatigue. But he seems to be settling down again. When he suffers, I do also, not knowing exactly what to do, struggling inside as I feel helpless to know what to do to help him, on the outside trying to show calm and strength for Adam’s sake, keeping a cheerful face, trying to maintain a sense of humor, trying hard to make him laugh. Yet it seems as if I fail in so many areas and disappoint so many people, even Adam. That is a hard thing, because there is only so much of me, and I can feel like I’m handling all of it poorly. I do thank, and am thankful for those who help us, or we would not have gotten through this.
The facility called about my dad last night, he was running a 101.5 temperature and shaking. Today they said it was a ‘touch of pneumonia’ and started him on antibiotics. My mom has chemo tomorrow, she is tired, we all are.
My trip today was another of not the best outlook in the world. I was trying to recall to mind the things that He has given me in order to be thankful for the good in my life. I struggled there, however, as it happened yesterday, besides my family and friends, of course the biggest is knowing He has saved me. That I will never be alone (not many people can say that). As I was thanking Him for so great a salvation, I drove past the same street yesterday that I have passed so many times. I saw the sign again, yet saw it for the first time.
Mercy Way…
I smiled as I turned and felt as if the Lord had just given me a boost of encouragement. A second thing I noticed as I drove past it again today, it that it is also a One Way sign. It has a ‘do not enter’ for those who would go the wrong way. I hope if you don’t know of His love, kindness and mercy for you, you might seek Him out. The Universe isn’t going to save you, nor Buddha, nor living your own way, good or not. Only Jesus Christ can save us, only He has had the victory over the sting of death (eternal).
It is not by any works, or righteousness (goodness) of our own, but because of His
And the Spirit and the bride say, Come. And let him that heareth say, Come. And let him that is athirst come. And whosoever will, let him take the water of life freely. Rev. 22:17
This past week, there has also been some times of laughter with Adam. Those moments are golden…Thank you all for your prayers, love and those of you who support us with your time. We love you.
How you can receive the free gift of eternal life
Update 2-12-2016
I can share that today was a rough day, so please continue in prayer as we navigate through the waters with the Lord’s help.
Update 2-9-2016
I am continuing to trouble the Lord on Adam’s behalf, and thankful for those of you who persist in prayer with me. I am weak, but He is strong. I am under the weather, but trying to not succumb. Adam had botox shots this morning, in his left arm, and two lower left limbs in the back, which encompasses his calf and the outsides by his achilles tendon. This should enable some of the tonality (rigidity and stiffness) to relax so he is able to stand flat and maybe one day soon, Lord willing, he will stand by himself, and walk too. He is able to compute and add, and answer questions, sometimes he is distracted, or overloaded, but he is there. We appreciate you all always. You are our friends, we have come to love many of you deeply, our greatest desire, is if you should get in a serious accident like Adam, or have a sudden stroke or heart attack, even choke on food (as did Adam) and stop breathing, we want to know we will see you again…
A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity. Prov 17:17
Update 2-5-2016
Time goes on. One day passes away, silently into the next. Events of the day seem to fade from my mind before I can put them here, but the moment is still somewhere in my memories. Yesterday after the main courses at dinner, Adam told me he didn’t like pears (when I made the mistake of asking). I teasingly stated, “Yes you do!” (That’s a no-no for TBI patients, you don’t tell them what they ‘used to like’ or what they ‘always liked to do’ or even “remember this?” But he had just ordered them himself the night before (when we filled out his menu with him). So I persisted when he responded with, “No, I don’t like pears”. I countered back in my best mom voice — “Yes, you DO like pears!”
“No I don’t!”
“Yes you do!”
“No I don’t!”
“Yes!”
“No!”
“Yes, Yes, Yes!”
“No, No, No!!!”
I got to laughing over the time of fun bantering between us, and finished with, “you’re a funny guy!” I gave him a couple sips of milk, and queried, “So can I eat your pears since you aren’t?”
“No!”
“No I can’t eat your pears?”
“No!” (first finger held up pointing to the sky for emphasis in mock scolding)…
“Who’s going to eat them then?”
“I am!”
“What do you mean? You just told me a bunch of times you don’t like pears, so now you want them????”
“Yes”, (slow and deliberately) — “I want MY pears!”
I laughed and started feeding him HIS pears. He ate all 3 (they brought extra).
Later on I decided we’d do a manicure. I got everything out and and told him that if I hurt him to let me know. He said, “O.K.” and I told him to let me know by saying “OW!”
“O.K.”
I started clipping and told him I was going to go and rinse the towel in hot water and when I came back, I took his hand to start again, and in a somewhat feigned and stilted manner, he said,“OW”! I started to tell him I hadn’t even touched him when he said, “Just kiddin'”…..
Funny guy…
Update 1-29-2016
Today shortly after Sabine & I arrived, Adam was being readied for a shower. After he came out, the doctor came in his room as I was putting away clothes. Dr. Su consulted with his nurse, Adam (Sabine & I) regarding his tracheostomy. He told us it would be removed later in the day. I didn’t know we would be getting a second swift opinion. As we were waiting for the respiratory therapist, Dr. Hixson made that move for decannulation, performing the procedure with no sterilization, just one rapid and unstoppable move. The nurse came in to finish by bandaging the open area. (Shaking my head – lol, they better not charge us for that).
Anyhow, pray for patience — this boy is trying it. 🙂 His middle name is going to come out and get used shortly. The shower and the Benadryl for the itching, along with the self-removal of the trach had him settled down for an afternoon nap.
Thank you all for your continued prayers. By the way, they say the procedure Adam performed left him none the worse for wear and the wound looks good and should be closed up in a few days. He ate dinner and swallowed even better, and so I am encouraged…
Update 1-27-2016
It’s been one week and we’re settling into the routine of Barrows. After asking at Scottsdale Osborn, calling, visiting Barrows, getting names, calling my nurse and doctor friends to try to see if we could get him in, all the human effort didn’t really count for much. God’s timing works and is less stress. In fact stress free if I’d just remember to do my part and don’t push too hard, resting in Him. Hard as a mother to relax in these areas…
Adam is being put in the wheelchair more often (an ergonomic one) and yesterday he had his trach downsized to the smallest size, the next step (Lord willing) the trach will be GONE!
The attitude at Barrows is completely different. It’s so happy, positive, and upbeat. It was not quite that way at North Mountain. Some were great, some not so much. I didn’t have any choices with Adam since the original Plaza turned him down, with his needs there were only a couple alternatives, and one was horrific. So that was the much lesser of two evils left. There were some good people at North Mountain that I’ll miss.
of sheets, catheters, tooth care etc., but they did. But we’re looking forward now. This passage is not really in context, but it reminded me of this as I said we were looking forward.
Adam is getting approximately 3 hours a day of physical therapy, occupational therapy and speech therapy. Recreational therapy takes them on outings. His first outing was an unnamed coffee joint at the hospital 🙂
We’ve come a long ways since the early days of being at the hospital overnight, and going home to get cleaned up, take an hour nap, and head back. Always afraid if we left, if it might be the last time we’d see him. Now, we know we also have a long road ahead of us. Fortunately I have friends and loved ones who are in this with us for the long haul. The Lord is good to all of us (Ps 107).
The LORD is so great, and makes known to us His mighty acts and power. He is gracious, full of compassion, slow to anger, and of great mercy. The LORD is good to all, His tender mercies are over all His works. The Lord upholds us when we fall, and is there to help us up when we are down. We wait upon Him to ‘give us our meat in due season’. He is righteous and Holy in everything He does. He is merciful and near to all of us who call on Him in truth (Ps 145), so please keep calling on Him on our behalf.
Also, I went with my mom and dad to his dialysis doctor for team meeting with social workers and some office staff. Made a call later to his facility regarding some things they are not doing (like putting on his VPAP-Adapt machine at night. The doctor wrote 5 scripts, not arguing for one thing we asked, he listened, found it reasonable, and wrote it out. The others were friendly, smiling and took quite a bit of time with us. It was a meeting that was so great. I saw my dad after, he told me he ‘approved’ of my upcoming marriage, and also was going to see his mansion soon one day (possibly in Cabo San Lucas he said because of my hat with that wording on it). When I left, he told me he loved me. I told him I loved him too. He added, I love you VERY much. The doctor was there at that moment and heard, and smiled, as did I. My mom also told me her petscan results came back and there are no signs of cancer. Thank You Lord for the joy in the trials.
P.S. – Adam’s feeding tube was just removed by Dr. Hixson (no degree, just one is obstinance). He pulled it out. The other doctor concurred (with Adam) 🙂 and I gave my approval to leave it out, so please pray for all to continue to work together for good.
Love in Christ, Adam, Holly, and the rest of the team (who are family to us).
Update 1-19-2016
Yesterday one of my believing friends gave me a break during the daytime/early evening, so I could head out towards the Superstition mountains with a friend of mine. Having been born and raised in Arizona, I do not remember seeing them up close. We went to see someone who is close to facing eternity. A destination we will all arrive at whether we believe or do not believe. Her husband is one who does not believe in either of these destinations. A kind and reasonable man, who is loyal and compassionate and takes care of his wife. How much more good could one be?
Except that we all miss the mark, and fall short of God’s Holy standard. He is perfect and righteous, we are not. He cannot be in the presence of sin and filth. We just do not see it from His perspective, we think we are good or good enough. Some think that they will reach the ‘divine in them’. Yet others think that good works will get them there. Others I know feel their church is ‘the one church that can save’.
I have news for you all. Every knee will bow, and every tongue will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord one day. He is your Lord whether you know or believe or not. He is Lord of all. The demons know that and tremble. Jesus has offered you a free gift of salvation from the fate of sin — eternal death. He came to seek and to save those who are lost, but He is offering this gift. He does not force it upon anyone, who does not want one to willingly love them?
He loves us all. He proved His love for dying for the whole world while we were yet in sin, and of course those of us in the future who had not even been born. Every single sin was paid for, nailed to HIS cross (Col 2:13-15). Jesus claimed that He is the WAY, the TRUTH and the LIFE (eternal) and that NO ONE will come to the Father but THROUGH/BY Him.
Are you trying to get to Him through another one than what He has offered? Are you trusting in another? Are you trusting in good works? Turning from sin? Proving you are saved by your works? Not really a fan of Dr. Phil, but “how’s that working for you?” Better yet, ask your loved ones, friends or even enemies if you are good enough to prove you are saved.
There is one way according to God’s Word, and that is to believe on Jesus Christ. What He did for us on the cross — He died for OUR sin (all of it), took it away at the cross. He was buried and literally rose again from the dead. He said He could and would rise from the dead, that He gave His life willingly and that He would take it up again. We need to know who He is; (Jesus was fully God and fully man). Jesus had the power to take His life up again.
“Therefore My Father loves Me, because I lay down My life that I may take it again. No one takes it from Me, but I lay it down of Myself. I have power to lay it down, and I have power to take it again. John 10:17-18b
Why fully God and man? Man sinned, so man had to die, but this had to be an eternal solution. His sacrifice was once for all, and for those of us who believe, it perfects us forever in His sight (Heb 10:10, 14). This free gift of eternal life (Rom 6:23)/everlasting life, starts the moment we believe (Jn 5:24) — Given everlasting life, we are no longer condemned, but we are passed from death unto life. We are moved into the everlasting Kingdom of Jesus (Col 1:13) sealed with the Holy Spirit until the day of redemption (Eph 1:13; 4:30), seated in Heavenly places already (Eph 2:6). This is immediate. This is not a probationary status. You have either believed God’s testimony of His Son or not (1 John 5:9-13) and can know you currently possess eternal life.
If you have, you are adopted into His family (Jn 1:12, Eph 1:5, Rom 8:15, Gal 4:5), we are flesh of His flesh (Eph 5:30-32), bone of His bones… Many more things happen to those who will believe on Him, but the good news starts with eternal life.
Adam moved to Barrows today, we are off to the races! 🙂
It took awhile, but he arrived this afternoon. On our way over, we saw an accident happen before our eyes. People went through a red light, three cars were involved, one flipped. Jason and I pulled over, I called 911 and we checked to make sure all had turned off their cars, told them to get out, and they all seemed fine, so we went on our way.
We were happy to see Adam’s room was spacious and it was a single room. The day still had plenty of events going on, after settling in, we had dinner and then went through his medical history etc. with his nurse. Then we did the same with the Respiratory Therapist. later on we got the menu! I told Adam he got to pick his own food, but he had to tell me out loud. We went through breakfast. He chose ‘cereal’, then ‘raisin bran’. What kind of milk? Skim, 2% or whole? He held up two fingers, I let that pass and circled 2%. I said bacon, potatoes, etc. etc. He verbally chose ‘bacon and potatoes’. Juice — ‘apple and cranberry’. For lunch he picked ‘soup, turkey, herbed potato wedges’ fully saying each word. I asked him for dinner if he wanted real butter or margarine — ‘REAL butter’, ‘tomato soup’ etc. The very last was dessert for dinner, (I only gave him the choices I thought he could have). ‘Fruit cup or orange sherbet?’ Jason piped in from the corner loudly, ‘ORANGE SHERBET’. I turned to Jason, ‘quiet over there’! (Adam was on a roll in speaking and didn’t want him to pick for him. However, I think the guy thing kicked in when Adam agreed, ‘orange sherbet’ which was met with a whoop from the rooting section. Shortly after that, a girl ran in from the emergency exit, obviously staff, screaming ‘help me’ followed by a young guy. We didn’t know what they were running from, so Jason went out to ask ‘What’s going on here?’ The young guy retreated to run into a security guard. Evidently he was a patient (from somewhere else) who was chasing her… We never did really find out what the whole story was. At any rate, we are really looking forward to what the next eight weeks will bring. Thank you all for your continued prayers. We’re looking forward to what the Lord will bring.
Update 1-15-2016
Again, please forgive the lack of updates. I have had a busy week. Not just with Adam, but many other things going on in my life. As usual, and I am sure for you all, some good, some bad, and yet more ugly. The ugly has been a distraction I am sure the enemy plans with what we are facing right now. But through it all, the Lord is always faithful.
Here is the good news. My best friend Jason asked me to marry him. These are things oddly I am shy about sharing in public, but want you to be included in the good part as well as the harder parts. Yes I am cutting to the chase so we can get to the reason why you came, to hear about Adam 🙂 I do not yet know when we will get married, we have lots of things to plan.
As for Adam —
I surrender all… I had that hymn on in the background in his room as Adam was sleeping and I was trying to do some things on the computer. Just low music, I didn’t realize Adam had woken even though I was sitting right next to him. Adam started singing/talking over and over, “I surrender all” along with the song. When the song ended, he was repeating it over and over.
Because a lot of the time CCM is not always sound in lyrics, (and I wasn’t really sure of what the full lyrics were), I explained to him that is impossible for us to do that (surrender all). But we can give our problems and faults to Him, and do it again when we take it back, asking Him to help us again. He is faithful (Matt 11:28-30). We have such a friend in Jesus. Then I thought maybe I’d put on something he might know the lyrics too. I asked him if he remembered, “I can only imagine”. He had that as his ring tone for me probably 7 or 8 years ago. He said he did remember. I put it on, and started singing. But when I stopped to hear his voice (mine is terrible) he’d only lip-sync. So I sang away loud as I could. Adam has given me permission to share these videos. I would respect it and not share them it were otherwise. I wanted to be sure he understood (because from time to time he hasn’t wanted his pictures taken at all). He did say yest to me sharing them with you all.
In this first video, I sang with Adam, (I apologize for the terrible off key, it is what it is) 🙂 Anyways, he was singing, I could hear his voice but if I tried to be quieter or stop altogether, then he would only lip sync (as I mentioned). Normally I would certainly care who heard me, but not this day. The RT came down the hall, smiling as he (and probably most the hall could hear me singing, but by then they’d already heard me singing “Jesus loves me this I know”, with Gloria at the top of my lungs.
You will hear (likely) when I start crying in this first video and can barely continue.
Adam clearly knows and is touched by the words of this song.
Adam finishes with tears in his eyes and much emotion.
When I went to leave later that night, I bent over to kiss him goodbye. Sometimes he pushes me away, I think he gets a little embarrassed. As I kissed him, I was saying “I love you”. At the same time he was pushing me away he was saying “I love you too”. Amber was there. And I laughed at him and said, “Well, wow, that is a funny way to show me and I recreated the scene as if I were Adam. “I love you too, but get off of me will ya, you’re embarrassing me, stop already!” (Not verbatim, but I do try to tease him back). I was walking away as I was doing my little ‘act’ and he laughed out loud, HAH! Wasn’t sure if the first was a laugh or a ‘HAH, I gotcha!’ But then he laughed immediately thereafter, “ha ha”, with the biggest grin on his face. First time we have heard him laugh out loud. Amber and I laughed and laughed and I continued my monkey antics to try to make him laugh. I’ve been trying ever since then. Last night was a huge scare with him choking, praise God it worked out and he was o.k.
The day before yesterday, he told me something that I couldn’t quite ‘get’ so I turned the music off that we were listening to, and I asked him to repeat it. He said clear as day, “I freakin’ love you”. His eyes were soft and had moisture in them, I was so moved and said, “Aww, I love you so much too”. Then instead of just enjoying the moment, that silly mother creature in me came out and I told him gently, “I’d probably be better if you say ‘I really love you’ vs. the word freakin’ because of what it sounds like”. He responded with his usual calm attitude, “Okay mom”…. 🙂 A few minutes later I asked, “How do you like my ring”? His humorous response? “I REALLY love it!”
The final news? I was told yesterday evening that insurance HAS approved his acute Physical Therapy with Barrows Neurological Institute with Dr. Christina Kwasnica. It will be an 8 week intensive therapy program for the family with Adam. Please keep us in your prayers for that to go well.
Update 1-6-2016
I don’t know how much to say, how little to say — still processing everything.
This week my daughter visited from Colorado with my first new grandbaby, Remi. Adam got to see her, and told Greer, “Thank you for bringing Remi to see me”. That’s a long string of words for him as he’s told us it’s difficult to speak with the tube in his throat. He also addressed Remi directly by saying, “Hi Remi” to his first niece. These are milestones and new memories being made with Adam. Remi also got to meet my parents, and went to the assisted living to see my dad. A baby was evidently a rare commodity as all the residents clamored over her and quizzed the others as to whether they had seen the baby.
We had our long anticipated appointment with Barrows yesterday. We were awaiting it in some trepidation, as we try to navigate these new stormy waters in our life. One of two gentlemen who worked the transport told me an interesting story. One had transported Adam before. I don’t know when, but the new one told me that Adam didn’t respond to him when he said hello. He said when he saw the other driver, (who said “Hi Adam”), he instantly responded back to him in recognition with no prompting — “Hi Scott”! That was huge!
We were there to see whether Adam would be approved for their intensive Physical Therapy program. Short answer, Yes! Thank the Lord! Looks like about two weeks if insurance will allow, we will be inpatient at Barrows for about eight weeks. How impressed I was by this doctor. She is bright, open and friendly. Astute and kind, didn’t seem like an ounce of condescension was in her (unlike some previous caregivers).
Dr. Kwasnica was informed by someone that we are with Adam day and night. I know God’s hand was in that too, it was definitely a positive for her. She mentioned the PT notes were not thorough, but she felt by looking and talking to Adam that he was ready for their program. Pray for God’s timing on it all. She instantly noted the vision problems (which was one of my things to discuss with her), and said it was different than his last visit.
Right now Adam is sick, not sure if it’s a cold, sinus infection or more. I asked for a chest X-ray, which they did yesterday evening (to make sure it’s not pneumonia). He is not running a fever, and does not seem terribly sick, however, better safe than sorry. We did get him on an antibiotic right away five days ago.
Back to Doctor Kwashica. She also ordered another CT Scan ASAP. I told her about his fall last week (out of bed) and that since then, he has had vision and other issues. She asked if they had done a followup CT Scan. I explained that I’ve left notes for the doctor with the charge nurses twice this week in Adam’s file. And that I have also been asking daily for the doctor, and still have had no word. So she wrote the order for the CT Scan, and nurse Kim said she entered the order last night. Please pray that will get addressed in a timely manner.
Kind of in a surreal shock driving back from the doctor, happy they accepted him, but not knowing if we’re ready, and what comes after. Thoughts running through my mind of what to do and how we will do it. But knowing the Lord has always been faithful and will help us through it all. Thank you for the prayer support, and those who come in faithfully to stand alongside me, Adam and Amber (who is daily faithful). In His love, Holly and Adam
Update 12-31-15
This is the last day of our year. We sit on the brink of the year changing. We have to remember to write 2016 and we will make a mistake several times. So many things that fall on the first of the year, things we need to get done. Yet, to us, tomorrow is just another day. That’s not a bad thing, the Lord has made each day, and we should rejoice and be glad in it.
Adam ended up in the ER a few days ago. We left his room, to give him some quiet as he was sleeping. A few minutes later the neighbor came out to say he had fallen out of bed. They arranged for the medical transport to take him to the ER. If it was an emergency, I cannot imagine how anyone would make it out of there. Adam is fine, but we went through all the testing, he did have a CT scan and no new brain bleeds or issues. When I said goodbye to him that night, I asked him to give me a kiss, he made a pucker/smack sound as he kissed my cheek and I kissed him. I told him I loved him, and he responded that he loved me too with one of the smiles I prayed to God to see. Moments to treasure.
We ask for prayer and wisdom for the vision problems that seem intermittent, yet worse for Adam. We are concerned about the blurred vision, and the lack of vision in his left eye. Also he is not seeing colors now, and there have been times he can see color, but for now, everything he sees is ‘grey’. Please pray for the dental care to happen (we have asked for it many times and over months). Pray about the staff who are careless with alarms or worse, who do not attend to him as often or soon as they should. We are not talking of 15-20 minute delays, but of hour or two delays. We ask for prayer regarding notes we have left for the doctor, requesting tests, requesting phone calls, and none as of yet. Our doctor unfortunately has been switched due to an insurance change. I have spoken to the new doctor once by phone. When asking about Adam his comment was ‘no change, he is stabile’. I asked him when he had a chance to look at his chart to please get back with me, because he obviously must be speaking of another patient. Adam has had many changes, and the man was obviously in the dark completely or just has too many patients. We ask for prayer for those there who seem to have no hope, that somehow we might be able to be there for them, to encourage them as we walk this road together. Since we have been there, we have seen people die, people get moved to other locations, and some leave to go home, and we wait yet again for another roommate.
Thank you most of all for continuing in prayer for Adam. He has been happier since my last update, so I believe the prayers of all of you have made quite a difference. I do not feel so much like I have hit a wall and can’t move, so I know your prayers have helped me considerably and I’m ever grateful. I looked outside at my neglected yard, in which it looks like several prairie dogs or gophers have taken up residence. I walked to my side garden, lots of tomatoes on the vine, green, and likely have been frozen a bit. It was a cemetery of woody vines strewn with about 12 socks. (My dog Zacchaeus has a sock addiction. He takes them out and rarely brings them back in). 🙂 I decided to leave them where they lay for the moment. Maybe next year I’ll pick them up 🙂
May we all continue to remember to thank the Lord for His goodness to us, no matter what we see, no matter what we are going through, I know He will never leave us nor forsake us. Neither Adam or I are close to being wonderful people. We are just normal, but we both have believed upon the Lord Jesus Christ as our Savior. We know that He died so that we could live with Him forever. This is my hope. I know He will work this all together for good. I hope it is so some will come to know Him. He has surrounded us with selfless individuals who come in (some daily like Amber) and others faithfully each week, some twice a week. Everyone sees this and marvels at his supporters. And the kind of support he has also touches them. God is good, so good.
Love to you all, Adam and his mom <3
Update 12-23
Jesus loves me!
Adam wept — Jesus wept.
Sorry it has taken me so long to update. It’s been emotionally a very hard week. I got back on Saturday and went in to see Adam. Jason went to see my dad in my stead. Adam seemed to be in pain, and when I asked him for a hug, shoved me away instead and said, “Maybe some other time”.
The next day was a little better, I don’t think he was happy with me being away. The following day, Monday,
I joined Tierney, Koby and David (who were with Adam already) in the cafeteria for a Christmas play. Tierney had to say goodbye. Adam looked as if he was very sad and actually might cry. He did — but not until shortly after, then he begin to silently weep. No tears, no sound. I didn’t know what to do other than to hug him and tell him it would be alright. That we were all there fighting for him and to not give up hope, things were getting better. He said simply, yet drawn out as if in relief, “O.K.” Yet he continued to weep. I have never seen Adam cry in his adult life, and honestly, I hope to not see it much again, although the fact he is having different emotions is good I know. On Sunday with another friend, she got him to smile in a big way. But when Adam wept, it made me think on a particular story about Jesus’s response when the mourners wept for Lazarus. It’s the shortest verse in the Bible.
Jesus wept. Jn 11:35
He cares. Jesus wept over Jerusalem, He has compassion on us and our needs (Matt 14:14; 15:32; 20:34; Mark 1:31; 5:19; 6:34). He loves the whole world, even the worst of us, He died for us, knowing full well every sin we have done, are doing, and more than we even know yet — He forgave the ones we haven’t even committed yet (Col 2:13-15).
This is a loving God who gave His Son for us, the greatest gift ever given. He loves us so much, He stores our tears in a bottle, numbers our wanderings and even the stars along with calling them out by name (Ps 56:8, Ps 147:4). Even the hairs on our head are counted by Him– and we know that changes all the time (Lk 12:7). He cares for us and wants us to cast our cares on Him (1 Pet 5:7). So give Him your burdens (Ps 55:22), come to Him (Matt 11:28-30). He is good to all — his tender mercies are all over His works (Ps 145:9), look around and see that they are there for you, because of His great love for you (Ps 19:1-5; John 15:13). New mercies each morning that keep me from being consumed — great is His faithfulness (Lam 3:21-23).
His song is over us at night (Ps 42:7-8) a prayer to the God of my life. He commands His lovingkindness each day. He is close to the brokenhearted (Ps 34:17-18; Luke 4:18-19), healing them and binding up their wounds (Ps 147:3). His precious thoughts towards us more than all the individual grains of sand in all the oceans (Ps 139:17-18). I know He will never leave us nor forsake us (Heb 13:5). When our soul clings to the dust, the Psalmist said His Word revives and strengthens us (Ps 119:25, 28). He satiates every weary soul and replenishes every sorrowful soul it says in Jeremiah 31:25.
That is the wonderful God I know. Even when my soul is disquieted in me, and I feel cast down, I hope in God (Ps 43:5). I felt that way this week. I could not speak much. I was troubled within, but I know God is with us, so who can be against us (Rom 8:31)?
Sometimes I don’t ‘feel’ these things, but I have faith that they are so, no matter what my emotions, for I know God’s Word is true (2 Cor 5:7; John 17:17), and was actually written ahead of time, so that I might have comfort and hope (Rom 15:4)…
Yesterday when I came in, Wendy and Dori were standing out in the hallway. It was after lunch and PT, and they were putting him back to bed to rest awhile. I heard one of my favorite old patients crying. I started to walk down there and faintly heard her singing in between the tears, “Jesus loves me this I know”. I couldn’t quite believe it, so I walked in and sure enough she was. So I chimed in with her (as the RT looked at me in surprise), “For the Bible tells me so”. We sang together, “Little ones to Him belong, they are weak but He is strong. Yes, Jesus loves me, Yes Jesus loves me. Yes, Jesus loves me, the Bible tells me so”.
Some of you may not think that means much, or may not understand what it meant to me and to this woman. It was a song I frequently sang to my babies, toddlers and children. I’d point to their heart, and I’d make a bicep curl for ‘strong’. And we’d sing together when they were old enough to sing. When the hospital told me that Adam was non responsive, the very first thing he did was squeeze my hand. It was when I leaned over his bed in ICU, told him I knew he was there, and sang Jesus loves me (through my tears) and Adam squeezed my hand. I believe the Lord allowed that reminder to help me get through my dark moments. There are times which tire me to a point of exhaustion, but He always brings some light somewhere. Some hope or encouragement from someone. Right when I think I cannot do one more thing…
I had the ‘care conference’ this morning, it was the first time that they were all pretty encouraging and said he was progressing and doing well. The only thing that is mostly heads up is interaction from the new doctor. Please continue to pray for us, don’t forget us. We love you. Have a blessed celebration of the birth of Christ. If you don’t know Him, please consider looking into who Jesus is, and what His significance is to you.
Love in Jesus Christ, Holly and Adam.
Update 12-15
They let us know that Adam had a hard time engaging in Physical Therapy, I asked if he had a bath in the morning (knowing from previous experiences — at least half a dozen times — that morning baths are very tiring for him). There is multiple hoists; they hoist him out of bed, shower him, hoist him back into bed to change him. Hoist him back out of bed to wheel chair, Occupational Therapy and or RNA (this particular morning was RNA and Speech Therapy) Wheel chair to dining room for breakfast, and same for lunch then up to PT at one. That doesn’t include any hoisting back in or out of bed.
It is just too much because the shower makes him alert for a short time, but then exhausted with all the activity on top. I found out that yes, he had a bath in the morning (which is contrary to the schedule they set up and have agreed to), but it’s just one of many things that constantly change in these facilities. (Amber did go to get the nurse to once again put the firm schedule in his charts)
I felt badly because I told him he needed to try hard always in physical therapy so that he could come home. I didn’t hear him say, “I am really trying” (Amber told me later). He seemed very relieved when I figured out he had been given a morning shower and Greer and I both noticed that his whole demeanor changed after that.
We asked Uncle Adam to say hello to his first niece. It took a minute with all the background noise but he said out loud, “Hi Remi”. We of course were all thrilled. Pray for our sustenance, those who are there all of the time with him, and covering for me as I am with my daughter and new baby granddaughter.
For those of you who have texted (or tried) we don’t get text up here, or rarely. A few days into being here, several texts came in but when I responded, it didn’t go out (and still hasn’t), and I haven’t gone back into town since Remi was born so that it could go back out again. So maybe in a day or so some of you will receive my response 🙂 Look forward to seeing you all, sad at the thought of leaving my family up here. Joel’s mom will be coming to help in a couple of weeks, so that will be a nice respite I am sure. God bless you all, and thank you for your continued prayers.
I’ll share a couple of updates from Amber and Doreen here too.
Amber: Adam’s doing great. When I arrived last night (Saturday) I found Dori finishing dinner with him and Jessup lighting up a little table side battery operated Christmas Tree in the still bed-less / vacant other half of the room.
As Dori was finishing up dinner, I started putting the brace on and mentioned that I was reminding Adam that he needed 2 good arms to hold his little niece (as a way for him to connect something he wanted with the reason we were doing something he didn’t enjoy).
Dori liked the idea and I told her that when Adam told me Greer was pregnant, “he was bouncing off the walls.” Then out of nowhere, Adam said clearly “I was not bouncing.” I looked at him and repeated “did you say you were not bouncing?” He said “yes.” I said “I didn’t mean literally, I meant you were excited. You were excited right?” And Adam again said “yes.” I said “Adam do you remember telling me that Greer was pregnant?” He said “yes”. I said “Do you remember where we were when you told me?” He didn’t answer and seemed to be thinking things over. Later in the evening…. he said “this sucks.” I laughed and said “yeah, this big time sucks.” Then he said “I remember everything from…” and he let the end of the sentence drop off. He didn’t come back to it so we let it go. When the CNA came in to turn him, I asked Adam which way he wanted to turn – left, right, or center – Adam said “Center” so the CNA and I adjusted him the way he requested.
Dinner has been consistently counted as 100% consumed. Tonight was pasta with at tomato sauce and shredded chicken, a vegetable medley consisting of steamed broccoli, bell peppers, carrots, and cauliflower, a dinner roll, side of applesauce, 2 containers of honey thick apple-juice, and a honey thick milk, and a chocolate chip cookie. Adam devoured everything other than the chocolate chip cookie. I saved the milk to go with the cookie and he is very good and drinking the milk slowly himself without assistance and without going too quickly. He had a couple small pieces of the cookie – it was a little dry. He said it was choking him so I gave him some milk and he said it was better. I asked him if he wanted another piece and he said no rather defiantly – so the remainder of the cookie was banished lol.
Important P.S. Update by Amber above– I left out the end part on Adam by accident.
One of my friend’s who helps with Adam, reported that he was a “little chatterbox today.” She said that he told her he had missed her. He said “hi” to nurse Kim and one of the CNA’s – both whom he had never acknowledged before verbally. She tried a stretching exercise with him with the handle from the red band that is on the side of the bed. She had him grip the handle and she held the other side, with the rope unhooked, and told him to hold it or she would fall – Adam held it and she was able to really stretch his arm out with him working with her.
After dinner, I asked him how his day was and he said “Excellent” I asked him what he did today and he said “Everything.” Then I asked him what was his favorite thing that he did today. He said “drinking a lot of…You’re silly.” I looked at him and said, “I’m silly?” He said “yes.” I said “you’re silly, what do you want to do tonight.” He said “Let’s read.” So i grabbed the little laptop table, the book stand, and your Bible and set it up on his lap where here could flip the pages. I asked him to pick out what he wanted to read. He flipped around the pages a little and eventually landed on 1 Samuel Chapter 2. I asked him if he wanted me to read to him, when I noticed his eyes were scrolling the page like he was reading silently, or trying to. He didn’t ask for help but seemed content to try and sort it out on his own, so I let him have space to do so. He gradually dozed off from the effort. So I put everything away and let him rest.
All and all, it’s been a pretty successful day, minus him pulling out his trach again Sunday morning. He seems to be doing it in his sleep somehow.
Love – Amber
P.S. to the P.S. from Holly. The story of Samuel in 1 Sam 2 is a story I told Adam as a little boy. The prayer of Hannah is amazing, and those of you who have known me for a long time know that the doctors said I would not get pregnant. I had seven more children. Consider reading the chapter online or in your Bible if you have one. Love to you all.
Doreen: I asked Adam if he wanted his Christmas tree closer. He is not really responding much today, except the throat growling thing.
Anyway, I put it at the end of his bed by the bathroom door, at the wall. I asked if he could see it. Then I moved it right up to the foot of his bed… He looked at it, I asked if he could see it clearly… he SMILED!! It was just on the right side of his mouth, but it was definitely a bigger smile than I’ve seen.
He is being a bugger today, though.
Make a snowman and send a pic to us. heehee.
Update 12-10
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My second married daughter Gillienne and son-in-law Brad are expecting their first baby in June. We don’t know yet of course whether it is a boy or a girl. My son Garrett and his wife Shannon are expecting their first also, due sometime in May. So it looks like two more crowns for me (Pr 17:6) 🙂
Last night we had some pretty shocking news. To make it brief, they tried to put another roommate in with Adam. Thing is they all had the yellow gowns on. Amber, knowing what this stood for, pursued it and would not let them bring this person in once she found out he had MRSA. Some of the staff were not happy, and some not very kind. Adam had to wait out in the hall, and Amber noticed the patient was tugging at his trach. She had been told the contagion was contained because he was on a ventilator. When she saw that, she asked if he pulled out his trach would that be a different story, could it release the contagion, and they agreed it would.
Even then, there were some who tried to insist to put this man in with Adam, saying they only had this particular room. One told her it wasn’t her place to insist it not happen. Amber stood her ground. Thank the Lord for her boldness.
They suddenly found room for him somewhere else, and did not put him in with Adam. We have tried to be really patient with what may seem little, but it’s hard for a brain injury firstly to deal with a lot of noise and temperature situations which we’ve struggled with. We have had roommates with consistent T.V. and visitors, which were very pleasant, however, for Adam, I believe the stimulus and in and out of the room was really difficult. This was beyond the pale and I thank the Lord that Adam was looked after while I am away.
Update 12-9-15
So Adam got an early birthday present. My daughter Greer and son-in-
Daddy and his little baby girl seem enamored with one another. She already has him captivated, and of course mom (my daughter), Kim and I as well (two grandmas). Auntie Jenn was dancing and clapping with glee (Kim’s younger sister). We laughed as we conspired together to try to find some medical garb so we could sneak in the room. I was headed to do it and Kim stopped me lol! We had a Lucy and Ethel moment. We got close with our ears to the door in time to hear the baby’s arrival, little sweet cries, daddy and mommy soothing Remi, and daddy being asked to cut the cord. It seemed like forever before we could hold her. What a miracle.
I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well. Psalm 139:14
I remember that time well. I had lost a baby at around 4 months along before Adam, so I was so excited to have a baby, yet scared. I remember preparing for the day that he would come home. Standing in that quiet room, with wine colored carpeting and white walls, (looking out to a yard that was not yet landscaped — a new house). Folding baby clothes and putting them away neatly in my newly assembled changing table. Organizing and reorganizing. Making lists (and checking them twice) 🙂 Moving the crib from one wall to another. Figuring out the best place for my bentwood rocking chair (I can still see it in my mind). Bringing him home, not knowing what was ahead for me… every part of my body screaming out for sleep after awhile. But happy to be with him. I remember him in his johnny-jump-up. I’d fasten it to the double-door office frame and he would bounce all over with the biggest toothless grin — baby giggles and screeching with joy. Seems like part of that is repeating for me, so waiting for the day I am past the fatigue, and he is smiling and laughing with me again. <3
We never can quite prepare for the things that will happen in life. The one thing we can count on is the goodness of the Lord. I have more to share when I am able. God bless and keep you all. Looking forward to updating with more soon of what I’ve been up to (maybe today).
Update 12-3-15
We’ve had some busy days.
Monday, Adam pulled out his trach, thank the good Lord, there was no damage. Tuesday – Physical therapy starts up again, but only three days a week, Occupational for two. Pray we can get that increased. On Monday, the same day he pulled out his trach, they capped it. That basically means instead of the pmv, (which has a screen for breathing), this one is solid — the next step towards having a swallow study and the trach permanently removed. His oxygen has stayed good and he has been tolerating it very well.
Monday was his first day to try toast and eggs, but he wasn’t interested in the oatmeal even though she added more sugar (Don’t blame him). He has been having pulverized food at dinner — meat, veggies, etc, and yogurt/applesauce at lunch, and Cara has been giving him breakfast for now.
Adam’s sister Tierney spent Tues. morning and early afternoon with him. After physical therapy, and some applesauce and yogurt, she brushed and flossed his teeth really well. He seemed very happy about that. He did not seem very happy when she left. He was grabbing and grabbing at his trach. I was busy keeping him off it, but he was intent on getting to it. I felt like Pat Morita on the Karate Kid (wax on, wax off) while trying every bit of motherly sternness. He was even using his left arm. I finally noticed the collar was a large one and it is irritating, so I got the RT to change it back to medium for me.
I decided to sit him up and stretch him myself. (I think I was stretched a little more). We continue to do arm stretching, he is getting kind of tight. A couple days ago, he was indicating it was hurting, so as I stretched, I told him to give me a thumbs up if it hurt, and when it did, I’d let off and the thumb would go down. We got in a rhythm and then I realized he was conning me, when I wasn’t stretching and he put the thumb up in the rhythm we were in. I told him to put the thumb down, I wasn’t stretching him. He complied slowly :). Then I somehow got him back laying down and he laid on his side, and I asked him if he wanted to move from his side to his back. He said, “No, I want to stay”. We didn’t stay in bed long before they came to get him to put him in a wheelchair at 4 which was great. We had some time outside, and later when his feeding machine started to run low on battery, we went inside to plug in. I didn’t want to go to the room, so we went to the conference room and sat there and watched the end of the 2005 movie Lassie (which we had started the day before). I started to stretch his other arm, and told him to do it too himself. He reached his arm up and reached out
praying without ceasing…join us
Brothers and Sisters…..
just letting all know that we are going to keep the con call open for Holly and her Adam..prayer without ceasing!!
CALL: 1-712-775-7031
ENTER these numbers 300-317-443 followed by the # Pound key
Holly I want you to know that my husband and I have prayed for you and Adam. I continue to pray as well. I read posts as often as I am able but can not always respond, therefore I wanted you to know that I’m in prayer. You don’t have to answer this post because I realize you are extremely busy with advocating and caring for Adam. Love & Hugs in Jesus’ name Sincerely, Carolyn
Thank you, the prayers of others matter <3
Your in my thoughts and prayers Holly. Love you, Kearcy
Excerpts from a group email to my family:
Adam was in an extremely serious motorcycle accident with another person. He is on a respirator, and has tubes to his stomach pulling out fluid. He hasn’t been conscious, and they cannot get him to open his eyes. Some of you know I was with him all night, I did go home for a couple hours late morning, but the hospital called and people kept texting, I think I managed ‘maybe an hour’ of sleep, and all in all not so bad.
It doesn’t seem as if most of the time as if they are holding out much hope for Adam. I know that the Lord can do anything, but these doctors are saying they don’t see that there is much higher intelligence (how they worded it) because they cannot get him to open eyes, wiggle or squeeze. He has a brain bleed on both sides of his head, those are inside, and one bleed outside of the head in the back. He had a flap stapled back together, but is completely unresponsive to any command, or any voices right now.
They say it can be partially due to the fentanyl which is for pain and to keep him kind of ‘under’. They don’t know if they’ll operate, it’s a wait and see for the moment. If they do, it will be a last resort. The other person on the bike, his name was Chris, and his wife Christine. Asking for prayer for the other guy Chris and the wife Christine.
Chris’ friend prayed for Adam, and I prayed for Chris, with his friend Eric. I also was able to give them Tom Cucuzza’s “How to go to heaven” which I happened to have in my purse. I put a number of them in the family waiting room too, people are scared and hurting and thinking about death at these times. They need to have the simple gospel. Clear, and without it being corrupted. For any who would like it, you can print it out for free here, or order smaller booklets from Pastor Cucuzza.
http://s3.amazonaws.com/storage.nm-storage.com/northlandchurch/downloads/how_to_be_sure_you_are_going_to_heaven_with_cover.pdf
They just put in a pic line, he is running a fever of 102 + right now, dealing with it with Tylenol and an IV it’s not gone down much, now it’s hovering around 101.
He definitely needs your interceding in prayer for him. Thank you for praying.
He has some more water on the brain, they are not quite concerned yet. If it continues, they will have to consider a couple more procedures, so please pray for the pressure in his brain to go down.
Appreciate everyone’s continued prayer for all involved.
Holly, I’m praying for your miracle and know that Jesus is able to heal him 100%. I am placing every ounce of faith in our lord and savior and believe he is already healing. I have rebuked the enemy who is powerless now to bring any spirits of fear or doubt. And have placed you all in the mighty hands of God for comfort, strength and peace.
Pray with me… Our Father who art in heaven, hallow would be thy name. By kingdom come THY WILL be done ON EARTH as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil. For thine is the kingdom, the power and the glory for ever and ever.
Love and continued prayers,
Your sister in Christ,
Amy
I’ll be praying for your son, Adam, as well as you and your family, Holly. The Lord can do anything. Nothing is out of His grasps. Not only does He hear your words, He hears your tears as well.
I’m here to listen if you should need to unload. It’s not much but it’s the best I can do being so far away.
Love and prayers your way, sister. Hang in there, honey!!! *huggles*
Thank you Amy, I know the Lord rebukes the enemy on my behalf (Jude 1:9) and I know the power of the One I place my faith in, He is able. I lay my child with Him.
Bobbie Jo, thank you, it’s good to have friends all over, knowing Adam is being covered in prayer. The Lord is faithful.
Holly this is for you:
Psalm 126:5-6
5 Those who sow in tears
Shall reap in joy.
6 He who continually goes forth weeping,
Bearing seed for sowing,
Shall doubtless come again with rejoicing,
Bringing his sheaves with him.
Thank You Lord for hearing the cries of your People!
Psalm 3:3-4
3 But You, O Lord, are a shield for me,
My glory and the One who lifts up my head.
4 I cried to the Lord with my voice,
And He heard me from His holy hill. Selah
Praying for the Garcia Family! Lord please comfort put your loving arms around them! They need you now Lord more then ever so please Lord Mercy & Grace Lord!
Also for Chris & his Family! Please take care of them Lord!
Jesus Name, Amen!
Praying for the Lord’s intervention and healing of Adam. Praying for Chris. All things are possible with the Lord. Please heal them. In Jesus name.
Adam just got out of surgery for a ventriculoscopy I believe. The doctor says his head pressures were not too terribly high, but they’ll be able to monitor them and deal with them. Thank you all for your prayers, we are at peace, even though we are dealing with this, the Lord is with us.
So grateful for the positive report. Will be diligently lifting you all in prayer. With love, Virginia ?
Holly, you and your entire family are in my prayers. I pray that God will miraculously heal Adam and that it will be a testimony to the entire medical staff that there is indeed a Great Physician in heaven, and He is the Creator and Redeemer of the world, the Lord Jesus Christ. Remember Psalm 46:1. May God fill you with His perfect peace, during this very difficult time. Blessings to you dear sister.
Yearning for God in the Midst of Distresses
Psalm 42:1-8
As the deer pants for the water brooks,
So pants my soul for You, O God.
2 My soul thirsts for God, for the living God.
When shall I come and appear before God?
3 My tears have been my food day and night,
While they continually say to me,
“Where is your God?”
4 When I remember these things,
I pour out my soul within me.
For I used to go with the multitude;
I went with them to the house of God,
With the voice of joy and praise,
With a multitude that kept a pilgrim feast.
5 Why are you cast down, O my soul?
And why are you disquieted within me?
Hope in God, for I shall yet praise Him
For the help of His countenance.
6 O my God, my soul is cast down within me;
Therefore I will remember You from the land of the Jordan,
And from the heights of Hermon,
From the Hill Mizar.
7 Deep calls unto deep at the noise of Your waterfalls;
All Your waves and billows have gone over me.
8 The Lord will command His lovingkindness in the daytime,
And in the night His song shall be with me—
A prayer to the God of my life.
Thank you oh Lord for your Grace, Mercies ( renewed each Morning ) & Lovingkindness!
We know you hear our prayers! We will continue to seek you in prayer as well as putting our trust in You and You alone!
Is there anything too hard for the Lord? Answer: ” Certainly Not!”
With man it is impossible, with God All things are POSSIBLE!
Show everyone who You are! May You oh Lord be Glorified!
Let the name of Jesus be Praised! Let His Holy Name ring out throughout the Hospital!
I am reading these to Adam, I just finished yours Terry, I love Psalm 42. This has been my prayer from the beginning. With man it is impossible, but with God, ALL things are possible. I trust in Him.
Praying without ceasing !
GOD IS ABLE! ( here are just a few verse that bear witness to this)
I am completely persuaded that God is Able!
Ephesians 3:17-20
17 that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; that you, being rooted and grounded in love, 18 may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height— 19 to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge; that you may be filled with all the fullness of God.
***20 Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us,
***God is able to exceed your expectation… He is able to do exceedingly above all you can ask of imagine
The Lord is able to give you much more than this… 2 Chronicles 25:9 b
***God is able to comfort those who are afflicted
Who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God… 2 Corinthians 1:4
***God is able to make all grace abound to you
God is able to make all grace abound to you… having all-sufficiency in all things at all times, you may abound in every good work. 2 Corinthians 9:8
I love this Terry, thank you so much <3
Holly, it sounds like you’ve both had a frenetic day, but I am grateful that Adam’s rapid heart rate has subsided, and that he is breathing on his own.
I have continued to pray for Adam, you, Chris, Christine, and the others in the trauma ward.
Thank you John — quite…
Tomorrow is a new day, with new tender mercies, and His lovingkindness that He will command each day. Thank you always for the prayers.
so glad to hear that the head pressures were not too terribly high – I pray and look forward to continued positive updates
praise God for his faithfulness!!
Thank you Sue and Jackie, I met you both in the same place, over at everydayhealth, just different times, but through the Bible verse pictures I believe. God bless you both.
I’m praying for Adam and all of you. I pray that the doctors and nurses hands are guided by the Lord. Love you, Holly. I’ll be praying! Debbie
Praying the Lord will help you with your mom, don’t ever forget Rom 1:16 and 1 Cor 1:17-18. Love in Him <3
Psalm 121 (NKJV)
God the Help of Those Who Seek Him
A Song of Ascents.
I will lift up my eyes to the hills—
From whence comes my help?
My help comes from the Lord,
Who made heaven and earth.
He will not allow your foot to be moved;
He who keeps you will not slumber.
Behold, He who keeps Israel
Shall neither slumber nor sleep.
The Lord is your keeper;
The Lord is your shade at your right hand.
The sun shall not strike you by day,
Nor the moon by night.
The Lord shall preserve you from all evil;
He shall preserve your soul.
The Lord shall preserve your going out and your coming in
From this time forth, and even forevermore.
from Fiona, Dori, Marian
Praying for God’s will and that the staff and others will learn more of the one true God through their encounter with you, Holly, and your family. I’m so sorry for what you are going through. I love you muchly.❤️
Holly, thanks for the update. It helps to continually bring your family before the Lord. Hugs to you. Please take care of yourself also at this time. Much love to you and your family and many, many prayers.
Susan, thank you. Hugs and love to you and your family, always so thankful for the prayers.
The Garcia family absolutely have my prayers. I am so glad you are at peace with such a tragic event. Keep us in the loop.
blessings
Preston, I am not exactly at peace with what happened, how do I explain, except you already know. I am torn to see my baby this way, gripped down deep to see the broken condition of the other young man, but the Lord is my peace, and He gives me that peaces that passes understanding. Not because of who I am, but because of Who He is. Love in Christ.
I am praying, dear Holly. My heart just breaks for you. May we see God greatly glorified through this.
Thank you for the update. Praying for His healing love and mercy. As he has brought you to it, surely he will bring you through it
2 Corinthians 6:7-8
And I will be a father to you and you will be My sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty.
You and Adam and your entire family are constantly in our prayers and on our hearts.
I love you, my dear friend and sister in Christ and all of your friends have been trying our best to knock down the gates of heaven with our prayers.
Praying without ceasing for you, dearest Holly.
Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed ; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness. Isaiah 41:10
Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth , give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled , neither let it be afraid . John 14:27
God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Psalm 46:1
http://www.bing.com/search?q=Selah+His+Eye+is+on+the+Sparrow&FORM=QSRE5
Funny, I didn’t see the link before Ginger, but I did listen to this song, but by Lauryn Hill a couple of days ago. <3
Continuing to pray for you all and asking God for His tender mercy & healing for Adam.
“Casting all your care upon Him; for He careth for you.” 1st Peter 5:7
Gwyneth – you know… He loves you, and I do too.
Praying for you, Adam and all of your family Holly. May God’s peace continue to rest upon you.
Thank you Thomas, the Lord will never leave us nor forsake us…
My heart is heavy for you cous’. I’m praying… love you
Kim, I also know that you know my sweet cousin. May the Lord bless you and thank you for being ere <3
Dear Heavenly Father,
We ask for continued help for theses two young men, Adam and Chris, fighting for their lives. Please give the doctors compassion, wisdom, insight and skill in their care. We pray all involved seek Your face. Help them to call upon You and believe in the Word of Jesus and be saved.
Reading the Psalms and we know we all face death but that in You alone we have Hope. We pray for Your tender mercies as long as it is “Today “. Hebrews 3:15
“While it is said, Today if you will hear His voice…”
And we know by Your Word that…
One thing is important as it says in the Psalms.
Psalm 27:4-6New King James Version (NKJV)
4 One thing I have desired of the Lord,
That will I seek:
That I may dwell in the house of the Lord
All the days of my life,
To behold the beauty of the Lord,
And to inquire in His temple.
5 For in the time of trouble
He shall hide me in His pavilion;
In the secret place of His tabernacle
He shall hide me;
He shall set me high upon a rock.
6 And now my head shall be lifted up above my enemies all around me;
Therefore I will offer sacrifices of joy in His tabernacle;
I will sing, yes, I will sing praises to the Lord.
You are our Rock
In Jesus Name Amen
Marcie
Continue to pray for you two weary sisters Marcie as you take care of your Dad and Mom. Praying the Lord will sustain you, and draw Tony and Mary to Him.
Amen Holly God is with you We wont stop praying until Adam has Divine health.
Thank you for your prayers Leslie <3
Praying for Adam and for all the family – looking to the Lord and trusting in His goodness and mercy!!!
“Remember, O LORD, Your tender mercies and Your lovingkindnesses, For they are from eternity.” ~ Psalm 25:6
Thank you Pammie, I look to Him and trust in Him, He is always good, and commands His lovingkindness every day. Love the verse, thanks for stopping by.
Lord, we life up dear sister Holly and her beloved son right now before Your throne of grace. You created Adam for Your glory, and although right now we cannot see how this fits with Your plan to prosper Adam and not t harm him, to give him hope and a future… we do know that nothing comes into our lives that surprises You, but all is filtered through Your loving hands. We trust You to love us and help us through our trials, even as we walk through the valley of the shadow of death.
Lord, make Your loving presence known, wrap Your arms of comfort around Holly, Adam, the rest of the Garcia family, Chris, Christine and their families. Keep the medical staff attentive, focused and compassionate.
As You restore Adam for Your glory, help this time of heart-stopping concern to speak to the need for repentance, salvation and forgiveness, and use even this tragedy to open hearts to You as these folks consider their eternal destiny.
Thank You, Lord Jesus, for all You are, for all You have done for us, and for all You WILL do for these families and their friends through this journey no one would choose to walk. Thank you that we never need walk alone, for You are with us always!
In Jesus name, Amen.
Made me think of this song.
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continued prayers in words and heart.
So very sorry, Holly. I pray for a miracle and peace and comfort.
Thanks for the updates. Keeping Adam and all of you in my prayers. Stay strong. Much love. xxxooo
Appreciate prayers for his cognitive function to be revived and for him to start breathing on his own, but for the right timing.
Praying..
Continuing in prayer for Adam and for you, Holly.
Praying Holly. Our God, as well you know, is the God of the miraculous! I have had 2 very dramatic miracles and Dennis has had one himself. Our God is able. We are praying for your Son, Dear Sister…Love, Robin and Dennis
Praying as you requested! Asking Our Father to tenderly speak to Adam as his spirit is hearing. Remember I shared salvation with my FIL when he was in a coma, came out of the coma and told the nurses he believed in the salvation of Jesus. His hearing and spirit heard! Keep reading the word to him and keep giving him hope. Sending hugs to you sweet sister and to all your family. Proverbs 3:5-6
Asking for God’s hand to rest lightly and deliver a healing for Adam and to continue to embrace you during this difficult time.
praying and praying love you
Praying & Praying………..
Thank You Jesus for what you’re doing & about to do!
You are ABLE, You are THE GREAT PHYSICIAN! There in Nothing too hard for You!
Give wisdom to everyone involved. Take care of Adam, Chris & their Families!
Oh Lord you know what’s needed.
In Jesus name,
Amen
standing with you UNITED in Christ Jesus-
“By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples , if ye have love one to another.”
John 13 : 35
WE ARE and FOREVER SECURE united in Christ Jesus. Amen
Praying continually!
Psalm 111:2 The works of the Lord are great, sought out of all them that have pleasure therein.
3 His work is honourable and glorious: and His righteousness endureth for ever.
4 He hath made His wonderful works to be remembered: the Lord is gracious and full of compassion.
5 He hath given meat unto them that fear Him: He will ever be mindful of His covenant.
6 He hath shewed His people the power of His works, that He may give them the heritage of the heathen.
7 The works of His Hands are verity and judgment; all His commandments are sure.
8 They stand fast for ever and ever, and are done in truth and uprightness.
9 He sent redemption unto His people: He hath commanded His covenant for ever: holy and reverend is His Name.
10 The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom: a good understanding have all they that do His commandments: His praise endureth for ever.
love you sister!
Hello Holly, My whole family is praying for Adam! My mom Jane, My sister Bambi, Cody, Tori, Chris and I are staying thoughtful and quiet concentrating on our prayers. We are all offering up our requests for Adam’s recovery. Lord Jesus, may Adam Garcia please respond to his doctors stimulus tests and to the voices of his family . Lord, may Adam begin breathing on his own without complications. AMEN. Love in Christ. Beth Pulliam Matthieu
Beth – <3 My little neighbor girl next door, so darling from the beginning. Hugs to all of you. Tell them thank you for praying for us, Love in Christ.
Checking in and continuing to keep Adam, Chris, Chris’s wife, and you, Holly, in prayer. The Lord hears.
Thanks Angela 🙂 Tell little Elijah he has to pray for us too <3 Tell him Jesus loves him.
I am checking in too and continuing to pray for you, Adam, Chris and his wife. We prayed too in our church fellowship this morning. Love you. Hugs. <3
I Love You Lord and I lift my Voice. To Worship you oh my soul rejoice! Take joy my King in what you here, let it be a sweet, sweet sound in your ear! ????
Letting the Families know prayers are still being lifted up on your behalf! The Lord hears the Cries of His People. He is so Gracious & full of Mercy! Thank you Jesus!
My the Praise reports continue to come! Wisdom, discernment, & patience! Lord You know what’s needed & You are Able!
Hold Adam & Chris in your loving arms and let them know You are there right, There
with them! Comfort the rest of the Families may they seek rest in You! May everyone get a good night resting. May they put All of their Trust in you Dear Lord!
In Jesus Name,
Amen!
Psalm 30:1-5
I will extol You, O Lord, for You have lifted me up,
And have not let my foes rejoice over me.
2 O Lord my God, I cried out to You,
And You healed me.
3 O Lord, You brought my soul up from the grave;
You have kept me alive, that I should not go down to the pit.
4 Sing praise to the Lord, you saints of His,
And give thanks at the remembrance of His holy name.
5 For His anger is but for a moment,
His favor is for life;
Weeping may endure for a night,
But joy comes in the morning.
Praying without ceasing. Love you!
hugs and prayers
I remember posting these verses, Holly, and you had commented that you had enjoyed them as you had been sick. God bless you, praying fervently for your steps and sowing seeds, I thought I would post this for you dear sister. Praying for your precious Adam, Chris, his wife Christine (also your new friend), I love you, as do so many.
For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth; to the Jew first, and also to the Greek.
Romans 1:16
13 For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
14 How then shall they call on him in whom they have not believed? and how shall they believe in him of whom they have not heard? and how shall they hear without a preacher?
15 And how shall they preach, except they be sent? as it is written, How beautiful are the feet of them that preach the gospel of peace, and bring glad tidings of good things!
16 But they have not all obeyed the gospel. For Isaiah saith, Lord, who hath believed our report?
17 So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.
Romans 10:13-17
1 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures;
4 And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures,
1 Corinthians 15:1-4
1 There was a man of the Pharisees, named Nicodemus, a ruler of the Jews:
2 The same came to Jesus by night, and said unto him, Rabbi, we know that thou art a teacher come from God: for no man can do these miracles that thou doest, except God be with him.
3 Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.
4 Nicodemus saith unto him, How can a man be born when he is old? can he enter the second time into his mother’s womb, and be born?
5 Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God.
6 That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.
7 Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again.
8 The wind bloweth where it listeth, and thou hearest the sound thereof, but canst not tell whence it cometh, and whither it goeth: so is every one that is born of the Spirit.
John 3:1-8
Psalm 22:22 I will tell of Your name to my brethren;
In the midst of the assembly I will praise You.
23 You who fear the Lord, praise Him;
All you descendants of Jacob, glorify Him,
And stand in awe of Him, all you descendants of Israel.
24 For He has not despised nor abhorred the affliction of the afflicted;
Nor has He hidden His face from him;
But when he cried to Him for help, He heard.
25 From You comes my praise in the great assembly;
I shall pay my vows before those who fear Him.
26 The afflicted will eat and be satisfied;
Those who seek Him will praise the Lord.
Let your heart live forever!
1John 1 What was from the beginning, what we have heard, what we have seen with our eyes, what we have looked at and touched with our hands, concerning the Word of Life—
2 and the life was manifested, and we have seen and testify and proclaim to you the eternal life, which was with the Father and was manifested to us—
3 what we have seen and heard we proclaim to you also, so that you too may have fellowship with us; and indeed our fellowship is with the Father, and with His Son Jesus Christ.
4 These things we write, so that our joy may be made complete.
praying…love you you YUMMY Sister!
Things are unchanged. Seems like time drags, and seems like it has been many more days than it has been. I stopped to say something to Chris’s friend, and the nurse there said something unkind and foolish. I was kind of shocked, I did not respond, but he walked out with us. I hit the corner, and stopped, and the tears flowed. A little time with the Lord, doing better.
But we have this treasure in earthen vessels,
that the excellence of the power may be of God and not of us.
We are hard-pressed on every side, yet not crushed;
we are perplexed, but not in despair;
persecuted, but not forsaken;
struck down, but not destroyed—
always carrying about in the body the dying of the Lord Jesus, that the life of Jesus also may be manifested in our body.
For we who live are always delivered to death for Jesus’ sake, that the life of Jesus also may be manifested in our mortal flesh. So then death is working in us, but life in you.
And since we have the same spirit of faith, according to what is written, “I believed and therefore I spoke,” we also believe and therefore speak, knowing that He who raised up the Lord Jesus will also raise us up with Jesus, and will present us with you.
For all things are for your sakes, that grace, having spread through the many, may cause thanksgiving to abound to the glory of God.
Therefore we do not lose heart. Even though our outward man is perishing, yet the inward man is being renewed day by day. For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, is working for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory, while we do not look at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen. For the things which are seen are temporary, but the things which are not seen are eternal. 2 Corinthians 4:7-18
Holly, I have been praying for you, Adam, Chris, Christine, and anyone who may visit.
Philippians 4:7: And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
I know all of you at expreacherman.com are continuing in prayer for me, and is much appreciated.
You are strong in the Lord, Holly. May the Lord hold you in His hands and hold you close. May He catch your tears and comfort you. I’m thankful to have had the pleasure in speaking with you. Even in this time of intense suffering you remain planted in His Word and not miss the opportunity to win more souls.
I pray for your son and your family and Chris’ family and friends. May you never doubt the love the Lord has for you. Nor doubt how many lives you have touched here.
Hang in there, sister
Amen <3
Continuing in prayer dear Holly.
Psalm 71:14 But as for me, I will hope continually,
And will praise You yet more and more.
15 My mouth shall tell of Your righteousness
And of Your salvation all day long;
For I do not know the sum of them.
16 I will come with the mighty deeds of the Lord GOD;
I will make mention of Your righteousness, Yours alone.
17 O God, You have taught me from my youth,
And I still declare Your wondrous deeds.
18 And even when I am old and gray, O God, do not forsake me,
Until I declare Your strength to this generation,
Your power to all who are to come.
19 For Your righteousness, O God, reaches to the heavens,
You who have done great things;
O God, who is like You?
20 You who have shown me many troubles and distresses
Will revive me again,
And will bring me up again from the depths of the earth.
21 May You increase my greatness
And turn to comfort me.
22 I will also praise You with a harp,
Even Your truth, O my God;
To You I will sing praises with the lyre,
O Holy One of Israel.
23 My lips will shout for joy when I sing praises to You;
And my soul, which You have redeemed.
24 My tongue also will utter Your righteousness all day long;
For they are ashamed, for they are humiliated who seek my hurt.
Isaiah 41:10 ‘Do not fear, for I am with you;
Do not anxiously look about you, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you, surely I will help you,
Surely I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.’
Romans 15:13 Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that you will abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.
Isaiah 40: 28 Do you not know? Have you not heard?
The Everlasting God, the LORD, the Creator of the ends of the earth
Does not become weary or tired.
His understanding is inscrutable.
29 He gives strength to the weary,
And to him who lacks might He increases power.
30 Though youths grow weary and tired,
And vigorous young men stumble badly,
31 Yet those who wait for the LORD
Will gain new strength;
They will mount up with wings like eagles,
They will run and not get tired,
They will walk and not become weary.
Lam. 3: 21 This I recall to my mind,
Therefore I have hope.
22 The LORD’S lovingkindnesses indeed never cease,
For His compassions never fail.
23 They are new every morning;
Great is Your faithfulness.
24 “The LORD is my portion,” says my soul,
“Therefore I have hope in Him.”
25 The LORD is good to those who wait for Him,
To the person who seeks Him.
26 It is good that he waits silently
For the salvation of the LORD.
Love you Holly. Also, my friends who are also praying, say you are an amazing and strong woman of the Lord. You’re inspiring and encouraging them as you share. That your love for the Lord and others is enormous and evident. Hope you find this encouraging. Love you. Hugs <3
These were great verses and passages which I sat and read in the hospital. Tell your friends, He is the One who is holding me up, and that it truly is not me. We have no strength to lean on. I kind of wonder if that is why I got this sinus infection, chest infection. It’s almost so that people will be positive that I have no strength on my own. I am being driven to and from the hospital and have someone with me all the time. Love in Him to everyone, He is strong and we are weak, but His strength is made perfect in our weakness.
Amen, but you are still a Strong woman of God in your faith and belief in Him. Your love and desire to see others saved too. I know for myself, I get selfish(or should I say, self absorbed and absorbed in the situation) in difficult times, simply because I can’t handle it. But you are selfless, loving and caring. You’ve even taken the time to respond to these messages here. That touches my heart big time. I am convicted and see where I need our Blessed Lord Jesus even more in my life. Amen, His strength is made perfect in our weakness.
Holly, you really are an amazing strong woman of God, an awesome witness for Jesus. You show me and teach me so much about Jesus <3
Love you and really wish I could be right there with you holding your hand. Hugs and Prayers <3
Dear Holly,
I think of you and your son and your family constantly. My prayers go up day and night.
Love you very much dear friend.
Nahum 1:7 The LORD is good, a stronghold in the day of trouble; he knows those who take refuge in him.
Dear Holly, still praying for Adam and Chris and his family, praying for a miracle and that the Lord will receive all the glory, also praying for Gods loving arms to surround you and all of your family. God bless love Kathy x
Dear Holly,
I am keeping Adam, you, your family, chris and chris’s family in my prayers.
Thank you Krystal, may the Lord bless you this week, so appreciate the prayers. Love in Christ, Holly
Thank you Krystal, may the Lord bless you this week, so appreciate the prayers. Love in Christ, Holly
Continued prayers, Holly.
Thank you for all your quiet support Judy, I notice <3 Love you.
Thought about you all weekend. Praying for you and Adam and Chris. Asking for a full recovery for the boys and continued strength for you Holly. I cannot imagine what you are going through as a Mom. Please take care of you. Get some rest and nourishment. Sending you love.
Holly my prayers are unceasing!!!! Adam and you know the Lord so well! I pray for wisdom for the physicians and healing for Adam and protection for you!!!!!??
As we continue in prayer, may the Lord supply every need! The need for wisdom, patience, healing, and most of all Mercy! Please Lord keep Adam’s temperature & blood pressure down! Continue to send comfort & Blessings to Holly& Christina as well as the rest of the Famlies. Touch Chris and let him & Adam know you are near.
May the Gospel go out through the testimony of your Grace! Give Holly wisdom & strength. When all said & done my we be able to give You oh God all the honor & Praise do your Holy name!
In Jesus Name,
Amen
ongoing prayers from me and Debbie W- we love very much dear sister
Nadine – you know I love you and continue to pray for you also, the Lord loves you far more than I, you are precious in His sight. <3 Hard to believe isn't it? But it's true. Buy Thunderpaws a new toy today 🙂
Psalm 116:1-2
I love the Lord, because He has heard
My voice and my supplications.
2 Because He has inclined His ear to me,
Therefore I will call upon Him as long as I live.
Thank you Lord for hearing our Prayers!
You oh Lord are so Merciful & full of Grace! Your Mercies are renewed each morning and You are so Faithful to us even when we are so unfaithful!
Thank You Jesus for what you are doing & about to do for Adam, Chris, Holly, Christina, and the rest of the Families. Also for the other trauma patients who need you.
Bless Your Holy name Jesus because You are Worthy to be Praised oh Lord!
Holly, I am praying for a miracle for your son Adam and that you feel the Lord by your side while walking through this storm. Thank you Terry for posting Psalm 116:1-2. So fitting and comforting verse. I will keep praying for your son Holly. God bless you both. <3
Holly, I’m thinkinhg of you all the time. Praying.
I’m so glad that you are there to comfort Christina.
I can’t even imagine what all of you are going through.
I know, however, that our precious Lord is there for you.
I’m praying for your strength and your health.
<3
Rhonda, I am so glad you are there for those in your life the Lord has obviously sent for you to comfort. Such a gentle and sweet spirit you have <3 Love you, thank you always for the prayers.
Holly, you know I’m praying for you and little Adam. I love you!
I think you have known Adam the longest Phyllis (outside of my family), I love you, it is a constant reminder of how we are not promised tomorrow. I love the Lord, and trust in Him in this, and I know Adam does too. Hug Jamie and Doug, and Paige and Dougie? I am sorry, I forget your grandson’s name if that is right. Tell Jacque and Jeremy I love them too.
God made Adam from dirt, and your Adam from pretty much of “miraculous nothing”, AND, therefore, He can certainly heal him from pretty much of ANYthing. Blessed be the Name of the Lord. You and yours are loved with an everlasting Love. We humans love you, too. Rest and get well yourself, Mamacita. xoxoxo ~ Sandy Ady
Holly, you are on my heart all day long. I pray for your strength, health and courage as you walk this unbelievable path. I am trusting the Lord for Adam. I am just heartbroken for you.❤
Paula, you have been with me since before Gilbert went to be with the Lord. He is so good. Praying for you too, and we both have seen how faithful the Lord always is, How Good, how tender His new mercies each day <3
Sending you hugs and love and prayers. ?
Thank you Virginia for praying with all of us, love you much <3.
Holly, I haven’t been posting (maybe once) and don’t often, but so wanting you to know that I am in continuous prayer for Adam and for you and your family! He is truly in God’s Hands and your testimony is glorifying to our Lord and Savior – may souls be saved in and through this and may the Lord give your peace and comfort. Love to you! Joanne Arnott
I pray with you Joanne that other’s may know Him. Love in Him <3
Prayers for Adam and his whole family. Much love <3
Love to you too Janeen, thank you for being there.
The verse that saw my niece’s family through when her son lay in ICU with uncertain prognosis following an accident, and saw him through months of pain and therapy, was Joshua 1:9 “Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid. Do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you do.” Praying for Adam and Chris, for Christina and her children, for you and your family, for friends and coworkers touched by Adam, and for the medical staff. May the Lord draw nigh, enfold you in His loving arms of comfort and grant you His peace that passes understanding, knowing Adam and Chris are in His loving hands.
Thank you Barbara, another one I love. Thank you for the prayers for all, I know the Lord cares. I am reminded of the sparrow and the swallow in Psalm 84, who knows to make her nest with her young on the altar of the Lord, who is my King and my God <3
Unto the upright there arises light in the darkness; He is gracious, and full of compassion, and righteous. Psalm 112:4
Praying continually as He desires His children to come to Him with our burdens and He will give His rest. Praying on all your behalfs tonight that each concern would be as incense to the Lord. I will not stop praying.
Father I cry out to you on behalf of Adam, Chris, Holly, Christine and their families. Draw the unsaved to yourself and give Hope in Jesus to those who know you. Show yourself mighty please Lord to all who are watching. Asking for total restoration of every cell, tissue, ligament, tendons and organs in Adam and Chris’s body. Knowing nothing is too hard for you dear Lord. Thanking you before we see it.
The cards, the words were precious Patti. You have been a dear friend. Love you, tell Kurt thank you, and all of your family that is praying for Adam. I know He not only stores our tears and our prayers, but numbers the hairs on our head as well as our wanderings. Not a sparrow nor a star falls from the sky without His knowledge and He cares.
How precious also are thy thoughts unto me, O God! how great is the sum of them! If I should count them, they are more in number than the sand: when I awake, I am still with thee. Psalm 139:17-18
I just shared Psalm 139:17-18 with Keaton yesterday. Thank you for your continual sharing of the Word, who has given us life. Continuing to intercede and asking my FB friends who are believers to pray! Wish I lived closer to be hands on for you. Gentle hugs
Patti, such a blessing to have you and all these other sisters in Christ. One day we will all be able to hug 🙂
Dear Holly, checking in again. I haven’t stopped praying.
Psalm 125:1 Those who trust in the LORD
Are as Mount Zion, which cannot be moved but abides forever.
2 As the mountains surround Jerusalem,
So the LORD surrounds His people
From this time forth and forever.
Sending you loads of Love, hugs and prayers.
Love you Holly <3
Thank you, and I continue to check in my down under sister in Christ, to see all of your encouragements. Love in Him.
Aaaaawww, thank you Dear Sis. Love you <3
praying and pleading…(((HUGS)))
Psalm 146:5-9a
5 How blessed is he whose help is the God of Jacob,
Whose hope is in the Lord his God,
6 Who made heaven and earth,
The sea and all that is in them;
Who keeps faith forever;
7 Who executes justice for the oppressed;
Who gives food to the hungry.
The Lord sets the prisoners free.
8 The Lord opens the eyes of the blind;
The Lord raises up those who are bowed down;
The Lord loves the righteous;
9 The Lord protects the strangers;
He supports the fatherless and the widow
and He even supports and comforts those who are crying out to Him on behalf of their precious Sister…we love you and pray that HEALING and FREEDOM for the captives are in abundance during this trial..for HIS GLORY ALONE! OXOX
Adding my voice with these, crying out for Mercy before the Throne of Grace for all of you, each need, each heart.
Thank you Kathy, hug Sergio and Hannah <3
Continuing in prayer for Holly, Adam and all your family , as well as for Chris and his family.
Psalm 91
1 He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty.
2 I will say of the Lord, He is my refuge and my fortress: my God; in him will I trust.
3 Surely he shall deliver thee from the snare of the fowler, and from the noisome pestilence.
4 He shall cover thee with his feathers, and under his wings shalt thou trust: his truth shall be thy shield and buckler.
5 Thou shalt not be afraid for the terror by night; nor for the arrow that flieth by day;
6 Nor for the pestilence that walketh in darkness; nor for the destruction that wasteth at noonday.
7 A thousand shall fall at thy side, and ten thousand at thy right hand; but it shall not come nigh thee.
8 Only with thine eyes shalt thou behold and see the reward of the wicked.
9 Because thou hast made the Lord, which is my refuge, even the most High, thy habitation;
10 There shall no evil befall thee, neither shall any plague come nigh thy dwelling.
11 For he shall give his angels charge over thee, to keep thee in all thy ways.
12 They shall bear thee up in their hands, lest thou dash thy foot against a stone.
13 Thou shalt tread upon the lion and adder: the young lion and the dragon shalt thou trample under feet.
14 Because he hath set his love upon me, therefore will I deliver him: I will set him on high, because he hath known my name.
15 He shall call upon me, and I will answer him: I will be with him in trouble; I will deliver him, and honour him.
16 With long life will I satisfy him, and shew him my salvation.
I can imagine that , at times, it takes everything in you to just hold your head up….if it took an effort to breath, you wouldn’t have the strength or desire. My heart aches terribly for you and your family and for Chris and his family. Through all this and through all that I have known you to have to endure in the 6 or 7 years I’ve known you, you weather your trials with such grace. What a living testimony to the love and mercy of Jesus you’ve been to me and to countless others.
Tony and I and I know so many others, are lifting you all up to the Lord in fervent prayer morning, noon, and night.
We love, LOVE, love you so much, Holly, and will not stop praying.
***Likewise the Spirit also helpeth our infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.
And he that searcheth the hearts knoweth what [is] the mind of the Spirit, because he maketh intercession for the saints according to [the will of] God.
And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to [his] purpose.
Romans 8:26-28***
I have taken comfort in that verse Ginger. Seems as if the moment the Holy Spirit brings a passage or a verse to my remembrance, someone posts it here. I have meant to comment, but rest assured I’ve been reading and am blessed.
will be praying with the saints for the surgeries tomorrow…my heart is full..I can’t contain the tears most of the time…they pour out to the Lord for you my David/Paul…agreeing with what Ginger just said…YOU ARE a TRUE testimony of the Lord’s strength..grace…mercy..love.. and forbearance! I praise my Father in Heaven for the GOOD works He does through you!!
I KNOW that MANY will be drawn to this INCREDIBLE LIGHT that He SHINES through you my dear sister…abide in Him…get FED..cause the HUNGRY crowd is coming…and we ALL know…you FEED and WATER with the EVERLASTING SUSTAINING BREAD OF LIFE…and refresh our souls with the CLEANSING WASHING WATER of the WORD….ALONE!! We are truly grateful for Him using you….
sooooo, during this time of YOUR NEED, I pray the Spirit overflows you with His Power and ABUNDANCE of His provisions!! Anoint your son…keep reading to him, and keep TRUSTING in the ONE Who loves Adam MORE!
We will tarry with you….Exodus 17
With MUCH Love for my friend and her son…and the lost ones that HEAR…may they come into the Fold by their BELIEF!!!
Kimberrly
Johnathan/Timothy
Thank you for your faithful prayers my dear friend <3 Love to Sami, Kourtney and Tim.
Still sending prayers Holly and still believing in a good outcome. Now also praying for another young man, son of another friend who has been severely burned. I admire your faith and am thinking of you.
Holly, I have been thinking about you and your son Adam allot lately and say a prayer when I do. My heart feels so sad for what you must be going through as well as Adam. You were here for me all throughout Mikes leukemia as well as others. The Lord has shined through you so much and you have truly touched so many lives by your relationship with Christ and how hard you try to help others know him. Now it’s ok for you to cry and need me. I am honored to be here for you. My heart cannot express the gratitude I have to have you as my Christian sister. You need me now and I just want you to know that I am here for you. My prayers for your precious son and you are there. I know this must be a very frightening time for you but also a time where you so unselfishly will use it for God’s glory no matter what. I am honored that God put you in my path shortly before Mikes leukemia. God knew I needed you before I did and now I want to be here for you my dear sister in Christ. God bless you and your precious son Adam, <3
Thank you Kearcy, I love and appreciate you, the Lord is upholding me and I sure appreciate all the prayers of you my dear friends. The Lord has done a lot for us all.
A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity. Pr 17:17
So sorry, praying for your friend and their son.
It’s not so much anything of me dear Sunny, some people may think so, but it’s only because of Him, I believe on Him, not the strength of my faith. He helps even my unbelief. Love you.
Unless the Lord had been my help, my soul had almost dwelt in silence.
When I said, My foot slippeth; thy mercy, O Lord, held me up.
In the multitude of my thoughts within me thy comforts delight my soul.
Psalm 94:17-19
You will keep him in perfect peace, Whose mind is stayed on You, Because he trusts in You.
~ Isaiah 26:3 NKJV
How is your Chris? The maintenance gentleman?
Psalm 121:1-8
God the Help of Those Who Seek Him
A Song of Ascents.
I will lift up my eyes to the hills—
From whence comes my help?
2 My help comes from the Lord,
Who made heaven and earth.
3 He will not allow your foot to be moved;
He who keeps you will not slumber.
4 Behold, He who keeps Israel
Shall neither slumber nor sleep.
5 The Lord is your keeper;
The Lord is your shade at your right hand.
6 The sun shall not strike you by day,
Nor the moon by night.
7 The Lord shall preserve you from all evil;
He shall preserve your soul.
8 The Lord shall preserve your going out and your coming in
From this time forth, and even forevermore.
“TOTAL PRAISE!”
Praying for you and your momma too sister <3
“I CAN ONLY IMAGINE”
I can only imagine what it will be like
When I walk by your side
I can only imagine what my eyes will see
When your face is before me
I can only imagine
Yeah
Surrounded by your glory
What will my heart feel
Will I dance for your Jesus
Or in awe of you be still
Will I stand in your presence
Or to my knees will I fall
Will I sing hallelujah
Will I be able to speak at all
I can only imagine
I can only imagine
I can only imagine when that day comes
And I find myself standing in the Son
I can only imagine when all I will do
Is forever, forever worship you
I can only imagine, yeah
I can only imagine
Surrounded by your glory
What will my heart feel
Will I dance for your Jesus
Or in awe of you be still
Will I stand in your presence
Or to my knees will I fall
Will I sing hallelujah
Will I be able to speak at all
I can only imagine
Yeah
I can only imagine
Surrounded by your glory
What will my heart feel
Will I dance for your Jesus
Or in awe of you be still
Will I stand in your presence
Or to my knees will I fall
Will I sing hallelujah
Will I be able to speak at all
I can only imagine
Yeah
I can only imagine
I can only imagine
Yeah
I can only imagine
I can only imagine
I can only imagine
I can only imagine
When all I will do
Is forever, forever worship you
I can only imagine
Keeping you all in prayer..<3
Tell Em and Britt, and the kids that I love them and appreciate their prayers <3 Love you too Debbie.
But as it is written, Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love him. 1 Cor 2:9 <3
Holly my sister– i’m still praying for your beloved son, Adam. May our Lord’s will be done. Peace to you.
Pray for the perishing brother…
Thanking Abba Father for bringing Adam and Holly (and all who love them both) through this week. Whether we are near or far, Holly, know that so many bear your burdens, though in such a small way compared to your mother heart. We trust in God and His provision in every area of our being. You are His darling daughter to override this tragedy with praise and sharing of the true gospel of salvation. Love you. Praying everyday.
Sandy, you have shown His love to your dear parents by caring for them, and now your mom. Tell her Holly Sprenger sends her love. <3
Thank you. I will! She loves to see personal things on the computer ~ is always amazed by it. I have kept her in the loop about you. She prays. . . mostly sleeps and eats, but still prays. In His Love, S.
Thanks to you all, for the Word of God to comfort me, for the song <3 Awaiting today's surgery. Please pray for the right people to hear the good news, to believe it and be saved. So many hurting in the hospital right now.
Praying for the best possible outcome for all those affected by this accident and that God use it for his glory. I will keep checking back for new updates especially today. Hang in there Holly. God bless you, <3
Praying fervently for you & your family knowing that God has all power & HE IS FAITHFUL!!! Trusting him for great & mighty things to come!!! Love you sweet friend!
~Nita~ ?
Holly,
I send to Adam and you all my love and prayers. I have known Adam for more then a decade now, I have seen him at his best and at his worst moments but I have always been honored to call him my friend. If I could, I would find a way to fly back to Arizona to lend my support. Having been in a similar situation myself in 2011 (in a coma, tracheotomy and feeding tube) I can tell you this first hand: He can sense your presence and love. I also know from discussions with Adam that he has always held God in his heart (no one could ever be as special and loving of a person as Adam is without God).
Heavenly Father, I asked you now to bless Adam in the name of Jesus. In healing his body to become healthy. Embrace his family and friends in comfort and peace knowing all things are possible with Jesus. as it is written in John 14:27 “My peace I give you.” Stay strong in God’s word, when we ask anything in Jesus’ name it is done with Him. Keep the faith. God has dispatched His angels around Adam and his protection is with him at all times. Peace and blessings to you and your family.
Much Love in Jesus Name.
John Mendola
Thank you John, we are all nothing without God. I talk to him, and sing to him (I know that drives him batty lol), I hum, and I tell him his mom is there. We read the Word to him each day. The Lord is always good to us, glad you are o.k. In our good times and bad, He is faithful when we are faithless, and no words can convey how that just expresses His goodness. We who belong to Him are part of Him, and He cannot deny Himself. His forgiveness is vast and wide, I don’t begin to comprehend it, but am so thankful I know it.
O the depth of the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of God! how unsearchable are his judgments, and his ways past finding out!
For who hath known the mind of the Lord? or who hath been his counsellor?
Or who hath first given to him, and it shall be recompensed unto him again?
For of him, and through him, and to him, are all things: to whom be glory for ever. Amen. Romans 11:33-36
“But those who hope in the Lord
will renew their strength.
They will soar on wings like eagles;
they will run and not grow weary,
they will walk and not be faint.” ~ Isaiah 40:31 Continued prayers. I hope you’re eating when you should. I know that is probably the last thing you want to take the time to do, but take care to nurish yourself. Are you feeling better?
Miraculously better, especially with my issues with allergies as of late. Thank you.
Praying for the surgeons.
Holly- I am thinking of you, Adam, Chris and both your families- and continue to pray.
PRAYING for the Lord to HEAL Adam…and you my friend!
Thank you Nadine, Betty and Kimberrly,
You will keep him in perfect peace, Whose mind is stayed on You, Because he trusts in You.
~ Isaiah 26:3 NKJV
Then He arose and rebuked the wind, and said to the sea, “Peace, be still!” And the wind ceased and there was a great calm.
~ Mark 4:39 NKJV
Amen?
I will both lie down in peace, and sleep;
For You alone, O Lord, make me dwell in safety.
~ Psalm 4:8
Praying for a restful, peaceful, night of sound, healing, sleep.
Hope you got a good night rest Holly. Continuing in prayer for all of you, <3
Thinking of you this very moment, Holly. Praying for Adam and you and your family. Prayers often for Christine, Chris, and family. Thanking God that you and your son belong to Him. <3 <3 Love you muchly…
Thank you Rhonda, love you too <3
His strength, guidance and wisdom
Thank you Debbie, it’s exactly what I need 🙂
Continuing to pray for each of you. Asking our Heavenly Father to bring each of your families showers of blessings this week. “The Lord looks from heaven;
He sees all the sons of men;
From His dwelling place He looks out
On all the inhabitants of the earth,
He who fashions the hearts of them all,
He who understands all their works.
The king is not saved by a mighty army;
A warrior is not delivered by great strength.
A horse is a false hope for victory;
Nor does it deliver anyone by its great strength.
Behold, the eye of the Lord is on those who fear Him,
On those who hope for His lovingkindness,
To deliver their soul from death
And to keep them alive in famine.
Our soul waits for the Lord;
He is our help and our shield.
For our heart rejoices in Him,
Because we trust in His holy name.
Let Your lovingkindness, O Lord, be upon us,
According as we have hoped in You.” Psalm 33:13-22
Love and hugs dear friend <3
Perfect passage this morning, thank you Judy <3 Through Christ…
Holly, I am continuing to pray for you, Adam, Chris, and Christine.
Psalm 23:6: Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the LORD for ever.
Thank you, today was particularly discouraging news from Dr. Hu, but we continue walking through this valley, and He is with us.
Dear Holly,
Love you. Continuing to pray for you, Adam, Chris and Christina.
Psalm 62
1 My soul waits in silence for God only;
From Him is my salvation.
2 He only is my rock and my salvation,
My stronghold; I shall not be greatly shaken.
Selah.
5 My soul, wait in silence for God only,
For my hope is from Him.
6 He only is my rock and my salvation,
My stronghold; I shall not be shaken.
7 On God my salvation and my glory rest;
The rock of my strength, my refuge is in God.
8 Trust in Him at all times, O people;
Pour out your heart before Him;
God is a refuge for us.
Selah.
11 Once God has spoken;
Twice I have heard this:
That power belongs to God;
12 And lovingkindness is Yours, O Lord,
For You recompense a man according to his work.
Psalm 71: 14 But as for me, I will hope continually,
And will praise You yet more and more.
15 My mouth shall tell of Your righteousness
And of Your salvation all day long;
For I do not know the sum of them.
16 I will come with the mighty deeds of the Lord GOD;
I will make mention of Your righteousness, Yours alone.
17 O God, You have taught me from my youth,
And I still declare Your wondrous deeds.
18 And even when I am old and gray, O God, do not forsake me,
Until I declare Your strength to this generation,
Your power to all who are to come.
19 For Your righteousness, O God, reaches to the heavens,
You who have done great things;
O God, who is like You?
20 You who have shown me many troubles and distresses
Will revive me again,
And will bring me up again from the depths of the earth.
21 May You increase my greatness
And turn to comfort me.
22 I will also praise You with a harp,
Even Your truth, O my God;
To You I will sing praises with the lyre,
O Holy One of Israel.
23 My lips will shout for joy when I sing praises to You;
And my soul, which You have redeemed.
24 My tongue also will utter Your righteousness all day long;
For they are ashamed, for they are humiliated who seek my hurt.
I smile, confirmation at two things I read, and so thank You Lord, and thank you also Fiona <3
That’s great. I realised after posting this, that I have given the scripture before. The Lord must have wanted you to have it again. The words that comes to my mind right now is, God’s Promises are Yes and Amen.
1 Corinthians 1:18 But as God is faithful, our word to you is not yes and no. 19 For the Son of God, Christ Jesus, who was preached among you by us—by me and Silvanus and Timothy—was not yes and no, but is yes in Him.
20 For as many as are the promises of God, in Him they are yes; therefore also through Him is our Amen to the glory of God through us. 21 Now He who establishes us with you in Christ and anointed us is God, 22 who also sealed us and gave us the Spirit in our hearts as a pledge.
Love you and continuing to pray <3
Dear Jesus – thank you that you love us thank you that you are faithful and are helping Holly and Adam, Chris and Christina. God please heal Adam – In the Name of Jesus- Amen
Holly, I’m continuing to pray for healing for Adam, in particular for relief from his fever.
I am praying for you as well, including for relief from other irritants that you have encountered.
Holly, hugs and Prayers.
God is Hope <3
Lamentations 3: 21 This I recall to my mind, Therefore I have HOPE.
22 The LORD’S lovingkindnesses indeed never cease, For His compassion's never fail.
23 They are new every morning; Great is Your faithfulness.
24 “The LORD is my portion,” says my soul, “Therefore I have hope in Him.”
25 The LORD is good to those who wait for Him, To the person who seeks Him.
26 It is good that he waits silently For the salvation of the LORD.
Romans 15:13 Now may the God of HOPE fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that you will abound in HOPE by the power of the Holy Spirit.
1 Thessalonians 2: 19 For who is our HOPE or joy or crown of exultation? Is it not even you, in the presence of our Lord Jesus at His coming? 20 For you are our glory and joy.
Hang in there.
Proverbs 21:31 The horse is prepared for the day of battle, But victory belongs to the LORD.
Deuteronomy 20: 1“When you go out to battle against your enemies and see horses and chariots and people more numerous than you, do not be afraid of them; for the LORD your God, who brought you up from the land of Egypt, is with you. 2 “When you are approaching the battle, the priest shall come near and speak to the people. 3 “He shall say to them, ‘Hear, O Israel, you are approaching the battle against your enemies today. Do not be fainthearted. Do not be afraid, or panic, or tremble before them, 4 for the LORD your God is the one who goes with you, to fight for you against your enemies, to save you.’
We are with you in Prayer and interceding.
Love you, hugs and prayers <3
Have been, am and will continue to pray. Much love in Him… <3
LOL! My grammar in the previous post is terrible…I was still groggy…pre-coffee…but no less sincere and heartfelt. I meant to say that I have been, am and will continue praying. Love you deeply in Him, Holly, and by extension, Adam too. Am petitioning our gracious loving Father thru Christ for full healing for Adam & Chris – even miraculously as a testimony for all those involved who don’t know Him – and for His blessed peace and comfort for you, your family and everyone else torn by this accident. Praying for His perfect outcome in all this, and joy in your mother’s heart once again ~ Stephen <3
I just called into the conference number and I just get background music. Did I miss it? I read your update Holly and it sounds like he’s making some progress. I am praying everyday. <3 🙂
Holly sending you a hug- you , Adam, Chris and Christina are in my prayers . jesus loves you for eternity-
Holly, I am praying for healing for Adam, and for him to get the right care, in the right place, that specializes in brain injury. Also, that you will have the wisdom to know when to be insistent.
I am praying for Chris and Christina and their families as well.
Thank you all, your words of encouragement are so appreciated.
Praying for wisdom to be firm when needed and discernment for all involved. Praying for patience, and better communication between staff & Family. May our trust be in the Lord through prayers and supplications and not in man or our own understanding.(Proverbs 3)
I keep on saying over and over again ” Lord You know & You are Able! The Lord reminds me that men are to pray and not faint (grow weary ). Those negative comments and thoughts from some, means Nothing because we serve a God who loves us, cares for us, is long suffering, is Faithful even when we are so unfaithful! He hears our cries and He’s working it out for the Good! Man knows nothing of His thoughts! For God’s thoughts are not our thoughts and our thoughts are not His. Just like His ways are not our ways -vice versa. Holly the updates about Adam’s condition are hopeful and just goes to show everything is in God’s timing! Thank You Jesus.
Will continue to pray for Adam, Chris and all the Families, staff, friends and all others that have a part.
Love u
God Bless!
Verse 11 stood out as words of encouragement!
Psalm 29:1-11
Praise to God in His Holiness and Majesty
29 Give unto the Lord, O you mighty ones,
Give unto the Lord glory and strength.
2 Give unto the Lord the glory due to His name;
Worship the Lord in the beauty of holiness.
3 The voice of the Lord is over the waters;
The God of glory thunders;
The Lord is over many waters.
4 The voice of the Lord is powerful;
The voice of the Lord is full of majesty.
5 The voice of the Lord breaks the cedars,
Yes, the Lord splinters the cedars of Lebanon.
6 He makes them also skip like a calf,
Lebanon and Sirion like a young wild ox.
7 The voice of the Lord divides the flames of fire.
8 The voice of the Lord shakes the wilderness;
The Lord shakes the Wilderness of Kadesh.
9 The voice of the Lord makes the deer give birth,
And strips the forests bare;
And in His temple everyone says, “Glory!”
10 The Lord sat enthroned at the Flood,
And the Lord sits as King forever.
11 The Lord will give strength to His people;
The Lord will bless His people with peace.
Thank you Terry, it is encouraging to me <3
Dear Holly,
My husband and I meet with Johninnc to listen to sermons by Tom Cucuzza. I just wanted to let you know that I am following your updates and praying for you, Adam, Chris and those around you. “Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God. For consider him that endured such contradiction of sinners against himself, lest ye be wearied and faint in your minds.” Heb 12: 2-3 “…neither know we what to do: but our eyes are upon thee.” 2 Chron 20:12b
Whitney, excellent choice of encouraging Words, thank you. It is easier when our eyes are on Jesus, not to think on the stormy waves. Thank the Lord, He is the one that calms the storm and stills the waves (Ps 107). Good to meet you, any friend of John’s is a friend of mine. In Christ, Holly
Standing with you in prayers- many here in NC- you are our sister- Adam our brother and we love you- I pray for your comfort, strength and encouragement in Christ…Thank you for telling us about the changes you are seeing in Adam-Christ is our solid hope. We alsao will be praying for the medical team . God bless you dear Holly hugs
Thank you Nadine, I haven’t stopped praying for you either, love in Christ. Hope you are feeling o.k.
You are a wonderful and faithful Mom, doing exactly what Adam needs. . . the love, the attention, the petitions to Abba Father. For a young man who was supposedly “dead at the scene”, he’s come a LONG way, baby. Thank you Jesus for hearing our prayers. We love your healing hand, our true Physician and friend, the Lover of our Souls and the Lifter of our Heads. Please continue your grace and peace at this crucial time in the lives of Adam and Holly and those who love them. We thank you for the progress of this, another day.
Sandy, thank you. I thank the Lord with you, and continue to ask Him to help me each day, for I surely need it.
I keep him and your family in my prayers everyday. I always come to this site to see what progress adam is making and it seems prayers are working. Don’t give up. I also pray for the nursing staff to think of him and his family during this time. It seems like they need it with all their negativity. As long as you, his family, friends and everyone else has faith all will be good.
Krystal, thank you. It seems like we are getting some good ones and some that aren’t as great as we would hope. But they need prayers, people may have their own bad days. We are so appreciative for the good ones, and for some good news.
Lifting you all up often throughout the day, for healing, peace, rest, and strength. Asking God for wisdom & kind, thoughtful care from staff & physicians who are in care of Adam’s & Chris’ continued treatment plans to meet every need for them as well as you. Love in Christ
Holly, Preston & I continue to pray for all involved; from the patient’s, the families, the nurse’s to the doctors. My God shine his healing light on all of you and provide the wisdom and dedication it will take to ride out this storm. Only God knows the destination and we Trust Him. Sending hugs and love.
Thank you Lisa, we need people praying for us, even as we know the Spirit makes intercession for us in our infirmities. We appreciate it more than others could know. Love in Christ <3
Thank you Father for your living Word. Let it bring life and hope to Holly, Adam, Chris, Christine, and all their families. You Alone Lord can do that and we ask for your mercy and grace to continue to be shown to all of them. Thank you that our eyes are on you as we petition you Jesus on their behalf. You are so Faithful Lord! Psalm 121
I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help.
My help cometh from the Lord, which made heaven and earth.
He will not suffer thy foot to be moved: he that keepeth thee will not slumber.
Behold, he that keepeth Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep.
The Lord is thy keeper: the Lord is thy shade upon thy right hand.
The sun shall not smite thee by day, nor the moon by night.
The Lord shall preserve thee from all evil: he shall preserve thy soul.
The Lord shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in from this time forth, and even for evermore.
May God strengthen you and keep you in His protection Holly as you minister to Adam as only a mother can. Bless the Lord Oh My Soul and All that is within me Bless His Holy Name!!
One of the songs we listened to recently by Andrae Crouch was ‘Bless the Lord’ 🙂
Praise the Lord! I’ve been reading your updates Holly from the newest to the oldest.They show more and more God’s Mercy and Grace! Tears in eyes & hands lifted Praise God! Oh thank you Jesus for showing not only those who know & love You how much they mean to you, but allowing the testimony of Adam’s one day at a time recovery show unbelievers that we serve an on time God! We put our trust in the Lord and not in man! This is just the beginning, Lord’s Willing Chris will come around also. Holly one of my best friends & Sister in Christ even joined me in praying for Adam, Chris, You, Christina and the rest of the families. May the Lord continue to bless you with strength and all that you stand in need of! Stand on the Promise of God! The book of Psalms are full of them, as well as words of encouragement. Isaiah 41:10 is a great verse with a promise!
Love you all! Sending hugs and Kisses!
God Bless! GN
Thank you and your friend Terry, love you very much <3
Awesome, encouraging report today! I love the eye signal communications. And they said what????? 🙂 Tell him everyone loves him and is praying for him – and you and Chris and Christina. Tell him to wink if he loves his mama. . . Ha. It makes all the difference in the world to be surrounded by those who will always respect him, and talk with hope and “as though” (and most often the critically injured can and do!) he is hearing with understanding. I’m sure he will have LOTS to say when he is able. . . a story to tell of what it was like for him. Thank God for the good nurse, and we ask the Lord to bring more staff like her to Adam’s side. God bless, keep, strengthen and renew your Spirit [wo]man. . . the Holy Spirit within you that manifests all that luscious Fruit. Loving you ~ praying for all ya’ll!
Even small things can mean God is working in a big way. I continue to pray for you all. I feel something divine is taking place. I know you are tired and weary but you are full of grace and your faith makes me feel small. God bless you Holly and Adam and Chris and his family.
Hi Holly, I don’t do good with getting on here very much. I keep you and Adam, and Chris and Christina in my prayers throughout each and everyday. I’m very grateful for all here who love you and Adam and The Lord, and have been faithful with all the loving thoughts, prayers, Scriptures and songs. You are so beautiful to behold as you live your trials with such grace. You’re inspiring to me and so many. With much love, Virginia ?
I just read through the new notice and comments. You are all in my thoughts and prayers every day. I love the posts in our groups. They are such loving and wonderful women. <3
Holly, I am praying that Adam will be comforted, and encouraged, and blessed from hearing God’s Word.
“He gives strength to the weary, and to him who lacks might He increases power” ~ Isaiah 40:29. Praying for you all to experience His increase in strength & power. Thanking the Father for His goodness and mercies. In Christ’s Love:} <3
A friend went to go be with him this morning and read some more. We pray for the Word to penetrate and discern the thoughts and intents of his heart… Thank you all <3
Love and hugs Holly. I know i haven’t said much the last few days. But I haven’t stopped praying. My friends are continuing to pray. As I was reading the update just now. Psalm 23 went through my mind, and was going to post it here. As I continued to read, you quoted from it 🙂
God of Grace <3
2 Corinthians 12:9 And He(Jesus)has said to me, “My GRACE is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness.” Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me. 10 Therefore I am well content with weaknesses, with insults, with distresses, with persecutions, with difficulties, for Christ’s sake; for when I am weak, then I am strong.
Hebrews 4: 14 Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold fast our confession. 15 For we do not have a high priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but One who has been tempted in all things as we are, yet without sin. 16 Therefore let us draw near with confidence to the throne of GRACE, so that we may receive MERCY and find GRACE to help in time of need.
Continuing to pray and agree with you dear Holly with all these issues.
Hugs and Prayer. Love you <3
Very encouraging, thank you, I do read, and it does help me. Love in Him.
I am so sorry that you and your family and Adam are having to go through this. I pray and i hope that you find a place to get him the treatment he deserves and with hopes of great staffing. To me these Doctors and practicioners need to find other jobs because this is NOT the field for them. I will keep you in my prayers as i do every day. Remember take care of YOURSELF also.
I pray somehow that I will do the best job possible as his advocate, yet also not doing anything wrong in my speech or behavior towards them. May they show mercy and see that we are just trying to take care of him.
Thank you, I am praying they will be humbled in this, and softened.
Praying for the direction of God in regards to the facility He has appointed for Adam. May the caregivers have His compassion and love for him. Asking for clarity of mind for you as it seems like an overload. Asking God to make your load very light. You are so very much loved by so many Holly. Stay close to Him. We love you!!
Thank you, love you too!
Oh my Lord! Please send Holly, Adam & their Family a Big Spiritual Hug!
Grace Lord! They need you now! You are our helper in the time of trouble!
Please touch the hearts of those doctors, nurses, or anyone that is being used by satan to cause hurt and pain! Lord you are in control and Nothing happens without you knowing. They think their plain is working, But You said in your Word oh Lord : All things work for together for the good to those who love God…..( Romans 8:28 ), No weapon Formed against you shall prosper ( Isaiah 54:17 ), Greater is He that is in you then he that is in the World ( 1John 4:4 )
Thank you Jesus,
Amen
So Holly stand and stay strong!
Will continue to keep Adam, Chris, you, and all the rest in Prayer!
The Lord is right there and will Never leave or forsake you!
God Bless!
GN???
Praying for you and your mom Terry, and for the same love and care for you both. May the Lord surround you with His mercy and compassion during this time.
Holly, I know you don’t need reminding that there are the schemes of man who thinks he is right in his own eyes, and then there is God. And then there IS GOD.
” Save me, O God, by thy name, and judge me by thy strength.
Hear my prayer, O God; give ear to the words of my mouth.
For strangers are risen up against me, and oppressors seek after my soul: they have not set God before them. Selah.
Behold, God is mine helper: the Lord is with them that uphold my soul.” Ps. 54:1-4
Lifting you up, lifting Chris up, and lifting each of your family members up, and the doctors, specialists, and nurses up throughout this day. Asking the Lord to help you, guide you in your decisions, and give you strength. Asking, You, Lord, to show the unbelieving that You are there in the midst and lighten your children’s load.
Of course I always need reminding, when we are weak, His Word comes in to revive us and strengthen us. We need reminded of the things He has done. Thank you for the prayers and Bible verses, and may some others come to see the love and goodness of the Lord. Sometimes I feel invisible, but I pray there is some light showing.
I’m so very sure that there is some light showing! 🙂 No doubt about it in my mind. He uses you to teach and to show and to pursue. Your strength is amazing. Of course, I know from whom you get your strength. 🙂 What would we do without Him? Faint.
I will be praying for your legs and your aches and pains. I already pray that others see the glory of God throughout your day of service and love for Adam.
I love reading everyone’s notes to you. Such good and loving people. I love reading your notes to us! They help ease the tense wondering about how you are doing. It’s difficult when I can’t be there to DO something to help out. I know you have lots of help. If that ever changes, if everyone gets behind and have to go about their daily lives, please let me know. I can be there. I’d be glad to do your laundry, clean the house, feed the dogs, get you a cup of coffee… anything.
Sleep well dear friend. Much love and lots of prayer,
Rhonda, just the thought of you being there, sounds wonderful. Warmed my heart <3
She’ll take the coffee 😉 hehe precious to hear that everyone in wanting to “Doooo” being Marthas…waiting here…having to be Marys….it’s the needed thing for sure! Bless you Rhonda…for having all our hearts desire to HELP!!
Hooly…ditto..what she said! 🙂
Psalm 71:5 For Thou art my hope, O Lord God: Thou art my trust from my youth.
6 By Thee have I been holden up from the womb: Thou art He that took me out of my mother’s bowels: my praise shall be continually of Thee.
Yes, the above servant, Kimberrly, came to visit, made me breakfast, coffee and brought it to me in bed, rubbed my feet, precious friend <3
Continuing to pray this morning for the Lord’s guidance and strength for you, Holly and for His continued care and mercy for Adam’s condition to improve and his placement be exactly where the Lord wants him to be. Asking Him in particular to open more hearts to helping you all and paths be opened so that you all have everything that is needed today.
Thanks Judy, yesterday was quite a day, in fact, I should be asleep but can’t, and am going to try to get a couple more hours right now. And then will fill in my last day soon. Love in Him.
Praise the Lord for your news today! I like Dr. Rocky’s name! Sounds like a good strong name. A fighter! Tell him we’ll be praying he lives up to our expectations!!! The battle is on for every good & needful thing in Adam’s treatment. Thank you for this day, Father and the blessings You have brought to it.
Thank you, praying for the same Judy!
Praying for you all- Dear Adam – God’s peace to you-so many saints are holding you in their hearts and prayers- we love you for all eternity. God is good. Psalm 23
Adam I meant to type we love you eternally in Jesus Christ !
Thank you and love you Nadine <3
jumping up and down for joy at such a YUMMY report today!! woohoo..thank You Lord…and Bless ALL who have contributed their prayers, time, money and talents to help get things done…
BLESS THEIR SOX OFF LORD…give them the fortitude and will to continue to bless Adam’s new chapter in this new place!!! Help Dr Rocky and the staff to have Your wisdom Lord…help Jason to be HEALED according to Your RICHES Jesus…and to be blessed by You Lord for ALL he’s done!…Give the Garcia, Hixson, Sprenger, and Red Robin family and friends All the FRUITS to continue to HELP!! our precious Adam!!! Shine Your Face upon them all and give them JOY for all they’ve done!! Thank You Lord for hearing our cries, pleas, petitions, complaints and most of all Lord…OUR PRAISE…make them a sweet sweet sound in Your Ear! Love on my friend…be with the kids who I’ve come to adore and place Your Word on all their hearts..give opportunities to share the Gospel in this new place…may they have an HARVEST beyond compare there! In Jesus Name…amen…oh and give massages to sore aching muscles and feet on my behalf Lord…. 🙂
Thank you Kimberrly. Sure appreciate it, not feeling too well as of late.
. Love you! God Bless you! <3 Psalm 103 xoxo praying!!
September 8, 2015 at 3:48 pm
was listening to Sundays sermon from Duluth and was impressed to send this verse of scripture to you Holly while praying for you and Adam
Rom 15:13 Now the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that ye may abound in hope, through the power of the Holy Ghost.
Rom 15:13 Now the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that ye may abound in hope, through the power of the Holy Ghost.
9/11-12
“I wanted to jump up and down for joy.”
God is so Awesome
Thank you Curtis 🙂 It’s funny, I think on ‘the spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak’. I am so thankful that He made a new creation in me, and that He will keep me, and help me in my weaknesses. Some days I feel frail almost, and then, the Lord comes in and all of that goes away, His grace is sufficient. He is the God of hope. I am so thankful for His salvation. For His Comforter, the Holy Spirit. For the prayers of the saints. Love in Christ to you and your wife, and praying for strength for you in your own situation. God is good to the children of men (Psalm 107).
Holly, Jane and I have continued to pray that Adam would be comforted and healed, and that you will get some rest.
I have also continued to pray for your father and the rest of your family.
Praying Holly
God bless you all
Nadine, I’m praying all the time, the Lord will give you comfort and strength with your Lupus. Love in Him to you.
Thank you John and Jane. Each day we see some new little thing, even if others don’t, we continue to hope and pray for the Lord to heal Adam and at the same time, we trust and rely on His goodness to us, no matter what we see.
Amen, dear Holly. We love you so much and remain standing with you and praising with you and thanking the Lord for He is good and is dealing graciously with us. Thank you, good and faithful and courageous sister and friend – I wish I could be there to hold you in my arms…Much love, hugs and prayer without ceasing. Psalm 30
Holly so glad to read about Adam’s progress! Praise the Lord for His Grace, Mercy and loving Kindness! God is sooo Good! He sure knows how to answer the prayers of His Children! Thank you Jesus for reminding us that you are still in control and will Never forsake us! May we continue to Trust in You oh God! Please Lord bless Adam and Chris with your healing power and continue to give strength, wisdom, patience…..as needed to Holly and the rest of the Family! Have your way Lord!
So glad we serve an on time God! Will continue to pray for everyone and all prayer requests.
God Bless!???
Ecclesiastes 3:1-18New King James Version (NKJV)
Everything Has Its Time
To everything there is a season,
A time for every purpose under heaven:
2 A time to be born,
And a time to die;
A time to plant,
And a time to pluck what is planted;
3 A time to kill,
And a time to heal;
A time to break down,
And a time to build up;
4 A time to weep,
And a time to laugh;
A time to mourn,
And a time to dance;
5 A time to cast away stones,
And a time to gather stones;
A time to embrace,
And a time to refrain from embracing;
6 A time to gain,
And a time to lose;
A time to keep,
And a time to throw away;
7 A time to tear,
And a time to sew;
A time to keep silence,
And a time to speak;
8 A time to love,
And a time to hate;
A time of war,
And a time of peace.
9 What profit has the worker from that in which he labors? 10 I have seen the God-given task with which the sons of men are to be occupied. 11 He has made everything beautiful in its time. Also He has put eternity in their hearts, except that no one can find out the work that God does from beginning to end.
12 I know that nothing is better for them than to rejoice, and to do good in their lives, 13 and also that every man should eat and drink and enjoy the good of all his labor—it is the gift of God.
14 I know that whatever God does,
It shall be forever.
Nothing can be added to it,
And nothing taken from it.
God does it, that men should fear before Him.
15 That which is has already been,
And what is to be has already been;
And God requires an account of what is past.
Injustice Seems to Prevail
16 Moreover I saw under the sun:
In the place of judgment,
Wickedness was there;
And in the place of righteousness,
Iniquity was there.
17 I said in my heart,
“God shall judge the righteous and the wicked,
For there is a time there for every purpose and for every work.”
18 I said in my heart, “Concerning the condition of the sons of men, God tests them, that they may see that they themselves are like animals.”
Still here sending loving prayers for Adam and his family. I was absent for a few days but you all were never far from my mind.
Funny how the Lord works Sunny. I just prayed for you (and some others), I texted you a short note, then came here and saw your post <3 Thank you, love you.
Hi Holly,
Sounds like there is some positive progress. Continuing to pray for you and Adam.
Psalm 41:2-3
In Christ,
Brad
Every day we see a little something 🙂 Thank you for the prayers, In Jesus Christ eternally, Holly
Psalm 77…weeping with you…our God is so GOOD!! Let the REDEEMED say so!
Loving the updates, Holly. I just read the 9-16 second one to my mom, and could hardly get through it. Adam may have a long way to go, but he has come SO VERY FAR! God only knows how far. Keeping you and yours in my prayers.
Thanking God for the progress
will pray for protection and remedy for TV
Praise the Lord! Each day a new blessing! Holly reading your updates continue to bless my heart as I read about Adam’s progress. God is soo Good!
Will continue to pray for his recovery. Thank you for letting us know exactly what’s needed! Adam, Chris, you, your parents, Jason and the rest of the families are mentioned in my prayers. God is Able!
God Bless take care ???
I am so happy to hear about Adam’s improvements. It seems as though you are a lot more content now that he is there than in the hospital. It seems like Adam, you and your family are getting a lot more respect, and that they have more patience then you were getting in the hospital and that makes me happy. I continue to pray for your family and especially Adam. Stay strong.
Know that God is using all your postings to touch many lives.
It’s such answered pray when we read what you post. Thank you Holly. Do you have any updates regarding Chris? Continuing to pray for all and what blessings your kids are to the staff. God will use those acts of kindness! Love to all and gentle hugs!
Thanking God for more encouragement from your posting of last evening! Continuing to pray with expectations of total healing in His time. Praying for your well being as well! Love and hugs
Thank You, Lord. We are so very grateful for each improvement by Your merciful hand.
Still praying for you all and so very thankful to see these improvements and answers to prayers. Thinking on Psalm 91 this morning. Much love to you today! <3
Holly, I have prayed for Adam’s friend who was injured, and for his mother. Also for Jason, your parents, you, Adam, Chris and Christine.
I am also thankful for the love shown by those who have come to visit and care for Adam.
I am too John (thankful for the immense help). Thank you for praying for Adam’s childhood friend. He has not seen him in years, but praying he heals each day. I’m praying for ‘Pop’s’ our roommate who was hit on his bicycle going for coffee. God bless your day.
I am so overwhelmed with Seeing Gods loving hand of mercy and grace on Adam through all your heart touching postings sweet Holly. Thank you for taking the time to keep us updated on the precious testimonies of Gods tender mercies for Adam and you. What encouragement to us all of His amazing grace!! Praying you will know how lovely the feet of those who bring good news are- that’s you our sweet sister! Continuing to pray that God will renew your strength and give you the desires of your heart as you delight yourself in Him! Gentle hugs to you!
Thank you dear friend. I pray I will do a better job of sharing that good news, seems like everyone is locked up in their room. I need to make some gift baskets or something. I am praying for strength, wisdom, opportunity.
Praise the Lord! Surely You oh Lord is worthy to be Praise. We thank you oh Lord for your goodness , loving kindness, and your Mercies towards us! Thank you Jesus for what you are doing and about to do on the behalf of Adam, Holly, Chris, Jason, Adam’s other friend and All of the Families, doctors, nurses and other friends and relatives. Thank You oh God for your Grace and Mercy! Thank you for Adam’s recovery! All the honor and Praise belongs to you oh Lord! God you are Able!
In Jesus Name,
Amen
Holly the scriptures from Psalm that you posted in your comments was the exact scriptures my Sister used in her prayer last night while praying for our Mom.
To read your comments was confirmation. Will continue to pray for Adam and others.
Praying for your strength to hold & for the Lord to give all of you Grace to continue take one day at a time! ???
Worth reposting: ( singing with hands lifted )
Lift up your heads, O ye gates;
and be ye lift up, ye everlasting doors;
and the King of glory shall come in.
Who is this King of glory?
The Lord strong and mighty,
the Lord mighty in battle.
Lift up your heads, O ye gates;
even lift them up, ye everlasting doors;
and the King of glory shall come in.
Who is this King of glory?
The Lord of hosts, he is the King of glory. Selah.
Psalm 24:7-10
I love those confirmations Terry, very precious. He is good to console us and comfort us in our trials. Love in Christ to you! He is the King of Glory!
when I realize HOW MUCH we are alike, I’m conflicted…I smile, of course, but, do I stay smiling and giggle a bit? OR do I break down and weep…? as the tears inevitably well up for my own shortcomings, but, they fall for my friend in hers!! Wishing there was something I COULD DOOO!!
You know me…my very first reaction when this first began was to pack a bag…leave my own life behind…and HELP my friend…HELP her son…HELP her other kids!! ANYONE…just let me HELP!! Yet I find myself HELPLESS more and more the longer I’m away…
I know you…and I wait impatiently here for my friend to be ready for “outside” HELP…you want to say yes…knowing my ITCHING foot to come…yet, you also know that I’m OK waiting for YOU to have things RIGHT for me to come…so, just reminding you here…I’m there when things are RIGHT!! (just in case you need reminding 😉 …HEHE)
verses till we are together again… 🙂 and to you, for Adam and that “look” you’re seeking…may they give you reprieve from the WAIT that we all seem to have to learn(I fail much more than you…I want it NOW…for you my friend even MORE than me)
Psalms 27:14 – Wait on the LORD: be of good courage, and He shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the LORD.
Isaiah 40:31 – But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew [their] strength; they shall mount up with Wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; [and] they shall walk, and not faint.
Psalms 25:4 Shew me Thy ways, O LORD; teach me Thy paths.
5 Lead me in Thy truth, and teach me: for Thou [art] the God of my salvation; on Thee do I wait all the day.
Psalms 40:1 I waited patiently for the LORD; and He inclined unto me, and heard my cry.
2 He brought me up also out of an horrible pit, out of the miry clay, and set my feet upon a rock, [and] established my goings.
3 And He hath put a new song in my mouth, [even] praise unto our God: many shall see [it], and fear, and shall trust in the LORD.
Bless you and your day sweet woman of God! <3 Love you bunches!!
<3 Thank you Kimmie….Love you.
By the way, love that passage in Psalm 40 so much, specifically vs. 3 has a special meaning to me…
Holly, I am continuing to pray for you, Adam, and all of your family.
You are such a blessing to us all.
I couldn’t do this without your behind the scenes support, quiet, yet taking care of things, I notice it, appreciate it, and am very thankful.
I think we all feel this need to do more than what we are doing, and yet at the same time we know that we are scattered all over the country, and the world, He has set each of us right where He wants us to be at this time, in His Will, and in His Wisdom, and for His Purposes.. so just know dear friend, that we are offering our fervent prayers constantly to Him for Adam, for you, Holly, for each person that is helping out, being our feet and hands for you and your family. For your health, Holly, and the strength for each day. For God to lead your personal Dr.s to the right diagnosis and treatments for you. For Chris, and Christine, your friend’s son with the head injury.. our hearts go out to all of them and our prayers. For your mom and dad, your sister who has been taking care of the business. For each of the other children.
For Jason who is fighting his own battle with his health, but there for you and your children.. the friend.
Our hearts ache for you as a mom, you talking about finding yourself waiting for Adam’s first word again…and yet He has given us all hope because He is our hope. We know He is there with you, in the stillness of the night, fighting back the tears or letting them spill over, your waking moments and the moments before you finally drift off to sleep, the drives home, yes we know He is there with you. He is your best friend.. how many of us can truly say that? We love you so much dear friend.
We were speaking on the prayer line one night of the love you have shown so many of us, and it was as if we were able to see the Love of Christ for us, through your heart. I know others expressed it much better than I just have.
Thank You Lord for this servant who shows no partiality, who does not esteem one over another as You have instructed. Thank You for her witness to all of us, she does not lift herself higher or that she is anything more, just someone who loves you Lord with all of her heart. Bless her rest tonight Lord,and thank You for the strength you give her each day. We know you are with Adam as well, strengthening him, and ministering to him in his heart…how comforting that is to know.
Debbie, what a beautiful and uplifting comment, I am speechless but in awe that you are speaking of me. I don’t even know what to say, it’s as if you speak of someone else other than me. Little steps I’m taking here, and praying I can somehow please Him, do something for others in His name.
Love you by the way 🙂
Beautifully written, Debbie. You articulated all my thoughts and musings perfectly. Thank you for saying what I could not. Mentioning all those who wander through our thoughts… the other family members, Jason, doctors and nurses, old and new friends who offer support in prayer. And, of course, Holly. Her endless work and care for so many and so many things. Thank You, Father, for helping us to see what a wonderful family we will all be part of in the future.
Much love to all, and yes, Lord, bless Holy with rest, health, and strength. I know that you are right there beside her. <3
Just read the update of 9/30 Ambers writing. WOW!! Should we be surprised? We are praying for God to heal Adam and to show Himself to others so this is another sign of that happening. Thank you Jesus!!! Lord would you minister to Amber as she sees your amazing faithfulness in this situation. Draw many to yourself through this situation. Please continue to hold Adam in your protective arms Father as you have in the past weeks. Thank you for placing ones you have chosen to help with the care of Adam, bless them Lord. Lord Jesus please give Holly the assurance that you are caring for her and her family during this time. Today is Kobys birthday Lord so please shower him with such blessings that he will know you are watching over him. We celebrate his life and thank you for him. Asking for continual encouragement from the hand of the Lord through this tragedy that God can turn to Triumph!!! May God be praised.
Checking in and just read Adam’s 9/30th’s love report:} <3 So precious! I know your heart melted, mama. Continuing to pray for you all and thanking the Lord for this blessing.
Yes, what a blessing. I trust Our Lord will continue to do such a wonderful work in his life, and bring him back to a life of fulfilment soon. God bless, and Love Jane Neal
Psalm 121 (NKJV)
God the Help of Those Who Seek Him
A Song of Ascents.
I will lift up my eyes to the hills—
From whence comes my help?
My help comes from the Lord,
Who made heaven and earth.
He will not allow your foot to be moved;
He who keeps you will not slumber.
Behold, He who keeps Israel
Shall neither slumber nor sleep.
The Lord is your keeper;
The Lord is your shade at your right hand.
The sun shall not strike you by day,
Nor the moon by night.
The Lord shall preserve you from all evil;
He shall preserve your soul.
The Lord shall preserve your going out and your coming in
From this time forth, and even forevermore.
Have I not commanded you? Be strong and of good courage; do not be afraid, nor be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”
~ Joshua 1:9 NKJV
Love both of these Dori.
Praise the Lord. Another good update of Adam’s recovery progress. Yes Holly one day at a time! May we continue to Praise God for the good, bad, and ugly 🙂
Will pray for tomorrow’s test. Wisdom and for another good Praise report! Thank you Jesus for You are Able !
Isaiah 26:3 You will keep him in perfect peace, Whose mind is stayed on You, because he trusts in You.
May the Lord continue send His shower (s) of Blessings!
I have so much to be thankful for. May I not be one of the nine lepers.
Holly, thank you so much for the updates. I just got a chance to watch the video with Adam and the puppy– man, was there ever a lump in my throat. Praise the Lord for the progress that Adam has made so far– i will continue to keep him and the entire family in my prayers. Grace and peace to you dear sister.
Funny, I thought I had answered several of these. The next two dogs didn’t quite work out, but it may be because of his shift in the scale. He is in the more anxious state, so the dog at his own house, a chihuahua, he did not want on the bed the other day. He started making straight up and down karate chopping moves, as if to say, ” I DO NOT want that dog on my bed”.
So, each day we never know, and keep trying new things. Grace and Peace to you also, love those words. In Christ, Holly
Thankful for yesterday’s report. I’m continuing to pray for Adam’s progress and for all of y’all’s needs.
Psalm 119: 89-93 “Forever, O Lord, Your word is settled in heaven.
Your faithfulness continues throughout all generations;
You established the earth, and it stands.
They stand this day according to Your ordinances,
For all things are Your servants.
If Your law had not been my delight,
Then I would have perished in my affliction.
I will never forget Your precepts,
For by them You have revived me.” <3
Holly,
That is great news that Adam was able to say Mom! You and Adam are continually in my prayers.
In Christ,
Brad
Thank you so much Brad, I am so thankful for those who faithfully pray for us.
not sure how I missed such a precious and wonderful update…in fact, I missed several…which is weird, cause I get them in my e-mail and check them immediately…so, I just read through a months worth! WOW what a blessing to read!!! So, you dooooo have a doppelganger!! Should I call you “Kim Bassinger” now???? hehehe I was laughing so hard! You are obviously the prettier one ^_~ and I have a good lawyer…for BOTH of us now … hehehe
anyways, I went to put your number into my new phone(used…the Lord brought my friend into the store, right when I was going to purchase a new one, who gave me hers, which was not being used…best part? it’s the exact model I had and Love!!…God is so Yummy!!) and when I typed your name…you can guess, it came out HOLY…I chuckled at the Lord…I imagined Him winking at me 😉 …. I, of course, added the extra “o” and wala…my ‘Holy’ Hooly is in my FREE phone!! just thought you would get a lol out of the Lord’s humor…and GRACE!
Sooooo happy the ‘treats’ are working for the staff…KEEP em coming precious ones that love Adam…wish me and Marian lived closer, we’d set them up soooo good, they’d have him walking out of there! Wait…that would be counter productive for them…they might DELAY such progress for fear of lack of Yummy goodness….tell you’re peéps to promise treats even when he WALKS out of there!!! 😉
Adam CLEARLY said ‘MOM’!!!!!! can’t even tell you what reading that did to me! I am thrilled beyond words for you ALL!! What astounding news…he’s on his way…Praise the Lord…jumping up and down and shouting HALLELUJAH from the rooftops!! I can’t imagine what that felt like…and to have a STAFF witness right there….just WOW!! God is sooooo GOOD!!
Get some rest our ‘hard charger’…take care of OUR Hooly…we need her back someday!! Until then, praying and Praising for Adam and you…and all who contribute to Adams recovery…
had a wonderful time reading…thank you faithful one!!!
Love you soooooo much! <3
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Holly, thanks for the update.
It is so sad to hear of those who don’t have visitors, it really is heartbreaking.
I am praying for Adam, Jason, you, and all of those who are working with Adam.
It is John… One older gentleman, when Adam didn’t accept his own dog, motioned for my friend to bring it over. He couldn’t talk, but she was able to go into his room as a volunteer. I always wave at him and smile. But they frown on going in rooms…
Bringing you and Adam before the throne of Grace , for straight path ways , healing touch , Thanking God for the progress we do see .
for the court date
Amo 5:24 But let judgment run down as waters, and righteousness as a mighty stream.
Thank you Curtis. Praying for you and your wife also. The Lord knows, He knows exactly what we need, He is merciful and His lovingkindness is everlasting. Couldn’t do it without Him.
Hi Holly, I am thinking of you and Adam and praying- praising The Lord for His great mercy and for the progress. love and hugs
Thank you always dear Nadine <3
Hi Adam- we continue to pray for you ..we are thanking Jesus Christ for the progress you are making. We love you. And I will be a father to you and you will be my sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty. 2 Corinthians 6:18
Hi Holly- praying for you always- love you. The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit that we are the children of God. Romans 8:15-17
Thank you always Nadine <3
Praise God!
Holly just reading a few of your updates! My dear Sister I’m shouting & crying also!!!!????? The Lord is sooooo Good & His Mercy endure Forever! Hallelujah!
Thank You Jesus! Holly His love for us is just …..Wow! No words to express how I’m feeling right now! Knowing He cares, hears our prayers and then allows us to experience His Grace & Mercy so that we can be a witness. Wow! Won’t He do it!
Nobody but Jesus all the honor & Praise belongs to Him.
Holly will continue to pray and look forward to reading your next Praise report!
Love You ???